Where does one start? I think that everybody is looking for much the same things, good health,friends,partners,fun and the ability to enjoy life to the best of our ability. Who we share this with...aaa... there's the crux! That all too elusive "chemistry", things we do or do not have in common, shared interests or exploring new ones, and the compatibility factor. These all play a part in a relationship. What I am looking for? All of the above.