sensualmassage42 :
Playful, adventurous, communicative, dee
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City
North Fort Myers Florida
Sign
Cancer
Height
5' 4" (163 cm) Age
60 year old Man
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Smoker? No Ethnicity
Caucasian with Brown hair Body Type Thin Religion Non-Religious |
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I am Seeking a Woman For Dating Do you drink? No Marital Status Single Profession real estate Smarts Some college Do you want children? Does not want children Do you do drugs? No Do you have children? All my kids are over 18 Do you have a car? Yes |
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About Me
Ooops - the "p" fell off the deep end. But that's okay. Come dive in and we'll go down and get it.
Playful, adventurous, communicative, deep - do these four words also describe part of who you are? If so, let's keep diving. We're leaving the surface waters where the superficial fish swim.
And you did pick up the first word of my user name right? Sensual? And you're still reading? That's a good sign. You do know what our profiles do, don't you? They serve a twofold purpose - they attract those that are interested in us and eliminate those that aren't. A lot of ladies don't make it past that first word, I believe. Why not? They think it's a shark that's going to eat them!(1) Are they afraid their partner is going to give them more pleasure than they can bear? Maybe afraid of it because they never learned how to put it to good use to enrich and lengthen a relationship? How many partners have gone fishing(2) because sensuality was missing in the relationship? Well anyway, I don't want to criticize them. If they are happy, that's great. But as for me, I enjoy sensuality and if you do too, then cum on with me and let's have some fun together. That's what the "42" stands for: "for two" - my partner and myself.
You still remember my first criteria, don't you? Playfulness. Don't forget it. You're going to need it if you're diving with me. Sense of humor, joking, quick wit and teasing. All part of my daily life. With whomever I come in contact with - my partner, my boss, friends, clients, the lady at the deli, people that don't like me. Anyone and everyone. But, I never make fun of anyone. I never tease about something a person is struggling with. If someone isn't smiling, you're going to hear a quick and sincere apology. Okay, so at a very minimum you've got to at least enjoy and understand my playfulness. If that's not going to happen, then go ahead and swim back to the surface. Ideally you'll be a playful, witty person as well. Let's keep diving.
Adventurousness is the next thing you'll find in me and I'm looking for. Nothing dangerous or really risky. But there's got to be a desire to try something new. Venture forth and explore. Get out of that comfortable box. Do something different. Forget about what others think. Let's explore some. We'll grab the mountain bikes and discover epiphytes and flowers in the forest. An old tandem kayak will give us access to small and secluded waterways. Somewhere we'll find a secluded beach to make love on. So, are you up for some adventure? Let's dive deeper.
Communication takes us to a very meaningful part of our dive. This is, I believe, the foundation for all we have together. If we're not talking - openly and honestly - then we have much less than I want in a relationship. I once had a soul mate. She wrote a testimonial without my request at the bottom. Never again could I be satisfied with a mere activity partner. Or just a lover. Or only a warm body under the same roof. If you don't also long for a best friend, kindred spirit, soul mate, activity partner, playmate and passionate lover all in one, your ideal fish are closer to the surface. Swim back up there to look. You'll find a better match. But if you're one of the rare deep-water breeds that longs for a deep connection on many levels then let's swim around together a bit. In keeping with this analogy of swimming our swim suits represent layers that keep our thoughts and emotions from being seen by our partner. Perhaps we start out with the equivalent of a muslim bathing suit covering almost every bit of our bodies. We learn to be honest in our sharing. As we get to know each other we strip away a few layers of protection leaving a very modest one-piece suit that reveals more of our inner beings. We are becoming more open about our thoughts. After realizing that we accept each other for who we are without being criticized, judged or rejected, it's down to a two-piece. Now our hearts are starting to be revealed. Likes and dislikes are being expressed. Hopes. Dreams. The result? It's down to a skimpy bikini. As trust builds and fears are expressed and encouragement is given, the top comes off and is replaced with emotional support. There we are swimming with just thongs on. The excitement builds. Desires and even fantasies are openly shared. The final step is the shedding of these last vestiges of covering and we are totally free with each other. This is what I like to refer to as emotional nudity. So in our analogy we have reached a point of emotional skinny dipping. It takes time, of course, to get to that point. If you are adamantly opposed to emotional nudity you can swim around and collect the suit you were most comfortable with and swim back up in search of others that are similarly clothed. But hopefully you will be relishing your newly discovered emotional and mental freedom. So this is why some of your friends told you how wonderful it is to skinny dip with your partner. And you understand. Welcome to the realm of best friends, kindred spirits, soul mates, play mates and passionate lovers. (And hopefully also one that understands and appreciates the creativity of expressing oneself in analogies).
Deep is the fourth must-have I chose. What goes on inside us - all our thoughts that go on in our heart, soul, spirit and mind. I really enjoy this part of who I am. You too? Okay then swim around here a bit longer and let's see if we think alike.
Curiosity is one of the fuels that powers it. Researching things I have no idea about is great. I'd love to be able to share what I've learned with my lady, knowing she'd be able to understand what I'm telling her and would be interested.
Questions are closely tied to my curiosity and a desire to learn new things. A frequent response I get to my questions? "Nobody has asked me that before." Why not? Where are the curious people I want to know?
My questions are, however, not just about a longing to learn. They are a part of my caring, sensitive and loving personality. I sincerely care for and want to help those I come in contact with - be they strangers, close friends but especially my soul mate. You will find me asking how you are doing. What you feel. Think. Desire.
Creativity is something I truly enjoy and I'd love to be with a creative lady. Let's create something beautiful and fulfilling with but especially for each other!
So here I've described four major aspects of who I am. Is this who you are? If so, please contact me! Please!!!
Footnotes:
1. I laughed and shook all over when I discovered the double meaning of what I had unintentionally written.
2. They literally go fishing without their partner because it's no fun being with them. But figuratively they go fishing where there are plenty of fish to find a f------buddy. That's a fishing buddy - count the dashes. So, if you want to keep your man, bait the shark that wants to eat you.
p!!
Playful, adventurous, communicative, deep - do these four words also describe part of who you are? If so, let's keep diving. We're leaving the surface waters where the superficial fish swim.
And you did pick up the first word of my user name right? Sensual? And you're still reading? That's a good sign. You do know what our profiles do, don't you? They serve a twofold purpose - they attract those that are interested in us and eliminate those that aren't. A lot of ladies don't make it past that first word, I believe. Why not? They think it's a shark that's going to eat them!(1) Are they afraid their partner is going to give them more pleasure than they can bear? Maybe afraid of it because they never learned how to put it to good use to enrich and lengthen a relationship? How many partners have gone fishing(2) because sensuality was missing in the relationship? Well anyway, I don't want to criticize them. If they are happy, that's great. But as for me, I enjoy sensuality and if you do too, then cum on with me and let's have some fun together. That's what the "42" stands for: "for two" - my partner and myself.
You still remember my first criteria, don't you? Playfulness. Don't forget it. You're going to need it if you're diving with me. Sense of humor, joking, quick wit and teasing. All part of my daily life. With whomever I come in contact with - my partner, my boss, friends, clients, the lady at the deli, people that don't like me. Anyone and everyone. But, I never make fun of anyone. I never tease about something a person is struggling with. If someone isn't smiling, you're going to hear a quick and sincere apology. Okay, so at a very minimum you've got to at least enjoy and understand my playfulness. If that's not going to happen, then go ahead and swim back to the surface. Ideally you'll be a playful, witty person as well. Let's keep diving.
Adventurousness is the next thing you'll find in me and I'm looking for. Nothing dangerous or really risky. But there's got to be a desire to try something new. Venture forth and explore. Get out of that comfortable box. Do something different. Forget about what others think. Let's explore some. We'll grab the mountain bikes and discover epiphytes and flowers in the forest. An old tandem kayak will give us access to small and secluded waterways. Somewhere we'll find a secluded beach to make love on. So, are you up for some adventure? Let's dive deeper.
Communication takes us to a very meaningful part of our dive. This is, I believe, the foundation for all we have together. If we're not talking - openly and honestly - then we have much less than I want in a relationship. I once had a soul mate. She wrote a testimonial without my request at the bottom. Never again could I be satisfied with a mere activity partner. Or just a lover. Or only a warm body under the same roof. If you don't also long for a best friend, kindred spirit, soul mate, activity partner, playmate and passionate lover all in one, your ideal fish are closer to the surface. Swim back up there to look. You'll find a better match. But if you're one of the rare deep-water breeds that longs for a deep connection on many levels then let's swim around together a bit. In keeping with this analogy of swimming our swim suits represent layers that keep our thoughts and emotions from being seen by our partner. Perhaps we start out with the equivalent of a muslim bathing suit covering almost every bit of our bodies. We learn to be honest in our sharing. As we get to know each other we strip away a few layers of protection leaving a very modest one-piece suit that reveals more of our inner beings. We are becoming more open about our thoughts. After realizing that we accept each other for who we are without being criticized, judged or rejected, it's down to a two-piece. Now our hearts are starting to be revealed. Likes and dislikes are being expressed. Hopes. Dreams. The result? It's down to a skimpy bikini. As trust builds and fears are expressed and encouragement is given, the top comes off and is replaced with emotional support. There we are swimming with just thongs on. The excitement builds. Desires and even fantasies are openly shared. The final step is the shedding of these last vestiges of covering and we are totally free with each other. This is what I like to refer to as emotional nudity. So in our analogy we have reached a point of emotional skinny dipping. It takes time, of course, to get to that point. If you are adamantly opposed to emotional nudity you can swim around and collect the suit you were most comfortable with and swim back up in search of others that are similarly clothed. But hopefully you will be relishing your newly discovered emotional and mental freedom. So this is why some of your friends told you how wonderful it is to skinny dip with your partner. And you understand. Welcome to the realm of best friends, kindred spirits, soul mates, play mates and passionate lovers. (And hopefully also one that understands and appreciates the creativity of expressing oneself in analogies).
Deep is the fourth must-have I chose. What goes on inside us - all our thoughts that go on in our heart, soul, spirit and mind. I really enjoy this part of who I am. You too? Okay then swim around here a bit longer and let's see if we think alike.
Curiosity is one of the fuels that powers it. Researching things I have no idea about is great. I'd love to be able to share what I've learned with my lady, knowing she'd be able to understand what I'm telling her and would be interested.
Questions are closely tied to my curiosity and a desire to learn new things. A frequent response I get to my questions? "Nobody has asked me that before." Why not? Where are the curious people I want to know?
My questions are, however, not just about a longing to learn. They are a part of my caring, sensitive and loving personality. I sincerely care for and want to help those I come in contact with - be they strangers, close friends but especially my soul mate. You will find me asking how you are doing. What you feel. Think. Desire.
Creativity is something I truly enjoy and I'd love to be with a creative lady. Let's create something beautiful and fulfilling with but especially for each other!
So here I've described four major aspects of who I am. Is this who you are? If so, please contact me! Please!!!
Footnotes:
1. I laughed and shook all over when I discovered the double meaning of what I had unintentionally written.
2. They literally go fishing without their partner because it's no fun being with them. But figuratively they go fishing where there are plenty of fish to find a f------buddy. That's a fishing buddy - count the dashes. So, if you want to keep your man, bait the shark that wants to eat you.
p!!
First Date
Well, I ran out of space in the above section and am continuing here. Please don't start reading here but in the "About Me" section above.
Some activities I enjoy are free-style dancing. Watching a movie at home is fun - I like romantic and well-made films. I haven't found much on TV that interests me. I would prefer researching green, environmentally friendly building online - something I started about 1999 and would eventually enjoy building. I started a group called Green Lifestyle in SW Florida at Meetup.com.
A final part of my life that I'd like to describe is the physically pleasurable. Repeatedly I've heard what expectations you ladies are being confronted with on first dates and the resulting frustration. You will find me to be a giver not a taker. I have decided to move at YOUR pace. It is important to me that you feel comfortable and enjoy yourself. We will do only what you desire. It is not my goal to end up in bed on our first date.
I love cozy restaurants or bars and moon-lit walks on the beach. It's a great way to get to know each other. If that's what you desire on a first date, that's what we'll do. But being an individualist, I'd really like for us to be creative and do something different than what everybody else is doing. That would depend on mutual interests we discover.
Long emails and phone calls can tell us a lot about each other but I've experienced a connection in writing or on the phone but then not in person. So sometimes I wonder if it wouldn't just be better to meet fairly quickly after a first or second contact online or on the phone. What does it cost us if we don't connect? An evening and a few dollars for drinks. What could we gain? Insight from another unique person.
Maybe one of us just read the other's profile and is excited. Both are online and IM a bit. Spontaneously you or I suggest, "Want to meet at _______ in half an hour? Come as you are."
Well, back to the sensual aspect of me. My user name expresses one part of a relationship that I enjoy. It's one way of giving pleasure and foreplay. It doesn't mean I only think about sex. I enjoy lovemaking that is soft, gentle and romantic with candles and soothing music. A sensual massage, using not just wonderfully fragrant oils but also soft brushes and silky fabrics. It can be passionately wild or out in the wild. Sometimes it’s short and to the point. But usually it’s extended, using techniques we’ve found that put the other over the peak repeatedly. The lifestyle could add some periodic spice as we play and adventurously explore together. I'd like you to be comfortable with and enjoy your femininity and sexuality. You like wearing sexy clothes that make you look hot and enjoy turning heads.
You can contact me by instant message or email at the smiley face using the user name yumyyearning. Use only one "m".
The following testimonial is from a former 5-year soul mate of five years and was unsolicited.
Some activities I enjoy are free-style dancing. Watching a movie at home is fun - I like romantic and well-made films. I haven't found much on TV that interests me. I would prefer researching green, environmentally friendly building online - something I started about 1999 and would eventually enjoy building. I started a group called Green Lifestyle in SW Florida at Meetup.com.
A final part of my life that I'd like to describe is the physically pleasurable. Repeatedly I've heard what expectations you ladies are being confronted with on first dates and the resulting frustration. You will find me to be a giver not a taker. I have decided to move at YOUR pace. It is important to me that you feel comfortable and enjoy yourself. We will do only what you desire. It is not my goal to end up in bed on our first date.
I love cozy restaurants or bars and moon-lit walks on the beach. It's a great way to get to know each other. If that's what you desire on a first date, that's what we'll do. But being an individualist, I'd really like for us to be creative and do something different than what everybody else is doing. That would depend on mutual interests we discover.
Long emails and phone calls can tell us a lot about each other but I've experienced a connection in writing or on the phone but then not in person. So sometimes I wonder if it wouldn't just be better to meet fairly quickly after a first or second contact online or on the phone. What does it cost us if we don't connect? An evening and a few dollars for drinks. What could we gain? Insight from another unique person.
Maybe one of us just read the other's profile and is excited. Both are online and IM a bit. Spontaneously you or I suggest, "Want to meet at _______ in half an hour? Come as you are."
Well, back to the sensual aspect of me. My user name expresses one part of a relationship that I enjoy. It's one way of giving pleasure and foreplay. It doesn't mean I only think about sex. I enjoy lovemaking that is soft, gentle and romantic with candles and soothing music. A sensual massage, using not just wonderfully fragrant oils but also soft brushes and silky fabrics. It can be passionately wild or out in the wild. Sometimes it’s short and to the point. But usually it’s extended, using techniques we’ve found that put the other over the peak repeatedly. The lifestyle could add some periodic spice as we play and adventurously explore together. I'd like you to be comfortable with and enjoy your femininity and sexuality. You like wearing sexy clothes that make you look hot and enjoy turning heads.
You can contact me by instant message or email at the smiley face using the user name yumyyearning. Use only one "m".
The following testimonial is from a former 5-year soul mate of five years and was unsolicited.
Testimonials/comments from sensualmassage42 favorites list
 | Neil is a wonderful, caring, loving and very sincere man as well as the most attentive and best lover I have ever had. He has a great sense of humor, is hard working and will make some lucky woman very happy. He can fix and build anything he sets his mind to and he is very committed to the future of our environment and works hard to design and promote green building. |