Dear Santa ,Can i have a nice lady for Christmas as i am very lonely ,i am quiet and shy until i get to know some one and then i can be the life and soul of the party ,i have been separated for over 2 years and am now divorced ,not working at the moment after being made redundant but i am not afraid to work i would much rather be working than having the minimum benefit they can give ,i live alone with my little dog and 22 year old cat who are great company but it's not the same as having a real person to be friends with .I have a 14 year old son who i rarely see now and i miss him so much ,i miss being part of a family unit ,i am a tall big bloke but i'm as gentle as a lamb i wouldn't hurt anyone people perceive me to be different than i really am .As you have probably gathered I'm no Brad Pitt i am just a plain ordinary guy who would like to find some happiness on these long cold lonely nights and have someone to be kind to in between the dark and the light i believe a lady should be treated like a lady ,and Santa ,if the right lady is out there i will look after her for ever not just for Christmas .I hope you can make my Christmas wish come true and make 2010 a special year for me Not looking for one night stands and all that nonsense just looking for someone to be friends with and to spend some quality time with as being on my own 24 hours a day 7 days a week is not very nice .Looks are not important to me as a nice genuine honest down to earth lady is what matters ,i am honest and genuine and have nothing to hide .

A few messages to get to know each other and maybe meet for a coffee or a drink or just a chat .