My name is Paula i am 46 years old i have 3 wonderful kids and one grandson the kids are all grown up and my grandson is 10 yrs old and the light of my life.(another grandbaby on the way..wooohooo)... I do enjoy time with my family so the man that i am looking for would have to be okay with that. I have a wonderful job and i work very hard, i love anything outdoors, the beach is my favorite but the mountains are cool as well...


Does this website really work? anyone for real??? are you honest? do you have any morals? do you love life? do you love your family?...just a few questions that i have..just so you know i do ask alot of questions that is the only way that i can get to know you as a person....good luck

The first thing that we have to do before searching for a new relationship is put the old relationships behind us and leave them...I am looking to move forward in my life. I have been on this website longer than i ever planned on being, but i am finding that it is harder to find what i am looking for than i had thought that it would be. Really i cant believe that my life has came down to me searching for a date on line.LOL...But i am learning more as i go.. What i am looking for in a man? I am looking for a man that still has some desire left for life, someone that is happy with who he is, someone that is strong but gentle if need be. A real man to me is a man that knows that whats on the inside is as important as whats on the outside, he would know that the most important things in life are the simple things. The little things mean more than all the big ones. I am a very simple person and i am looking for the simple things in life.

I am not a drama queen. I am just a hard working woman that trys to better my life with each day that comes. I am not into drugs i am not into one night stands. I am looking for love and i will not settle for less than what i am looking for in a man. I know what i want and i am happy with myself and NO i am NOT looking for someone to help me get over my ex!!!!!!!!!! I am over him and have been for a long time and i am okay with that.So i say lets get on with life and leave the past in the past...I am looking for my last cuddling partner, i do love to hold hands as we walk or as we sit on the couch. I am looking for a man that wants to show me that he cares. I am NOT looking for someone that cant seem to express how he feels. I know what it is like to have love and lost and even tho i loved and lost i do want to find love again...I can live MY life in search for the perfect man or a man that fills all my fairy tale dreams as to what i want in a partner but the truth is none of us are perfect we all have our faults.But some men have a hard time believing that they are not perfect. I am not looking for a perfect man i am just looking for the perfect man for me..I am looking for a man that is easy going and likes to have a good time as well, a man that can go off and do his own thing while i do mine. Everyone needs some space to be who they are, i dont like nor do i want a man that is on my heels every second of everyday. I am my own person so who ever i meet would have to understand that.

Life throws us curves balls but the main thing is that we know how to dodge them and stand firm in what we believe in. I believe in Love, Family and i believe that we should all stay true to ourself and stay true to who we are.. I am looking for the kind of love that my grandparents had. if that is possible this day and time? It seems like people on here like to play games and i am just not into all that, i am honest and i am not into games i am looking for the real deal..

I like to have fun and my family are very very important to me. People seem to take family for granted and they have lost all morals. So for me i am looking for a man that is happy with who he is and does not change from day to day but the same person tomorrow as he was today....

My hobbies include anything outdoors..I like to go for walks also love the beach.but i like the mountains also.

Music?? let me see it really depends on what kind of mood i am in i like country but also love Kid Rock and Rod Stewart. UPDATE 05/24/09 I am really getting into the Zac Brown Band these days (song whatever it is?) is the best!!!!!!!

Well first off the first time we meet will not be a first date, that will come after we see if we have anything in common. I am pretty much for anything out doors i love being outside!! But i am a women so i love to shop as most of us do!!!! Flea markets Estate sales yard sales are great also...I am very easy to please so i say we just keep it simple i dont expect you to take me out and spend a hundred dollars for 1 dinner for us to decide if we have anything in common...so lets just keep it simple and start it slow and see where it goes!!!