Well I am like so many others I read about on here in that I am knew to this but, I got to thinking that when I have been approaching women at bars and other places they have a preconcieved notion that I am just about sex. Well that is not the case! I am sick and tired of all these creepy guys giving the good ones a bad rep. I have spent most of the last 3 years focusing on being the world's greatest Dad, which I am succeeding at by the way, that I have forgotten about my own needs. I want to find a real person, I have had no luck recently and mabye it's because my standards are to high? But I believe that when it comes to standards of trying to find a life mate why set them low? I love the outdoors, and I am very athletic by nature, I just took up tennis recently and it is awsome! I work in the oil and gas buisness but I can fill you in more about that later. I have a 4 year old Son and even if you don't like or want kids you cannot help but love this little guy! So that being said we are a package deal, but I am not looking for "mommy" he has a mother. Really I am looking for a muse, I used to write a lot and as of late I have run out of things to write about so you could be the one to get the sweet poems sent to you at work, most likey accompanied by some flowers(your favorite of coarse!). I am looking for the kind of love you see in movies and you read about in books, I am a hopeless romantic, I know it's out there so I thought that online might be a good way to find someone searching for the same. I am very easy going and trust-worthy, I like to talk so be warned. So all you women looking for the real deal drop me a line and we will see what happens! I waiting to hear from you so don't be shy! I guess I should also point out that there is a lot more to me then just this profile and a couple of pictures! If you take the time to find out more about you will find out that I am someone that has a lot to offer. So I urge you to take a chance and at the very least you might gain a new friend out of the deal...that's not such a bad deal is it? I want everyone to know that I am seriously one of the good one's, that is not to say that I am perfect but I do strive for perfection. Thanks for taking the time to read about me and happy fishing!

P.S. Chuck Norris doesn't read books... He stares them down until he gets the information he wants! LOL! I love that one!

Well, I am updating my profile Again in hopes that my luck can change. I don't really know how best to put it but I am a real, normal guy just looking to meet a nice, real woman. So far I have had no luck on this site and I have been on here for over a year now, so if anyone would like to give me a few pointers that would be great. If you made it this far into my profile then I should let you know that I am not a creepy pervert. I am however looking to rid myself of this vile thing called loneliness, which has been an ailment of mine for the better part of 4 years now. So if you are a real woman (no tranny's) and you want to meet a really nice guy with a good head on his shoulders, then drop me a line. I am still here!

Here is yet another update, I writing this on Halloween and it has been a while since I have updated this so here we go. First off congrats on making it this far into my profile! I have been trying to figure out different ways to convey my personality on here and well it is just to tough to do being that I have a lot of things in common with the dude from the dos equis beer add on T.V. ( The most interesting man in the world) I like to try to live vicariouly through myself! LOL! And I can also speak french...in russian! I like to joke around and poke innocent fun where I can, and I have also been known to be a bit sarcastic at times but I am also a mature man who knows appropriate times to be goofy and and serious. I play competitive volleyball twice a week which is alot of fun and good exercise as well. I am a big UFC an as well, I have some friends that are in the fight game and I try to watch all the PPV's and go to the fights whenever the opportunity arises. That is not to say I am a violent person, in fact quite the opposite, I just enjoy the "art" in martial arts and some trash talking helps to make things interesting. I also golf as much as I can but it has been difficult to get out a lot over the last few years seeing as I am actively pursuiting the title of world's greatest Dad! Golf is a form of therepy for me, there is nothing like a peaceful walk around a coarse with some good company and a beer! I am always looking to try new things and I would love to find someone to join me on these adventures! Are you the one? I guess we will have to wait and see!

Here I am back again with yet another update to the profile of ME! I now have my son living with me full time so it is even harder for me to get out and meet people so I thought I would continue on with this site. I know it is odd for a guy to have his child full time in this day and age but once you get to know me you will see that I am not your everyday kinda dude! I have been doing a lot of thinking and planning to future travel plans as of late, because my last trip was over 5 years ago now. I have been to Thailand, Malaysia, Taiwan, Australia, New Zealand, Honduras and most of the west coats U.S. I have aspiration of going to Africa someday but I need to spend a lot of time there so it will have to wait, Luckily for me it isn't going any where! LOL! I am a certified Rescue diver and being that I live here on the praires you are right in assuming that I don't have a whole lot of opportunities to go diving. I would love to do a cage dive with some great whites one day I think that would be the ultimate rush, I just need to make sure I am wearing some Depends under my wet suit though! LOL! I listen to all types of music except country and heavy death metal, and I think that one of the most romantic songs ever is sexual healing but not the version by the great Marvin Gaye but the Ben Harper version. Also the love song by the Cure is one that I will have played at my wedding for sure! If you haven't heard them then I highly encourage you to check them out becaue when you hear them you will write me back and say "Wow those are great tunes, thanks!" Take care and I am sure I will be back soon so be well all!

P.S.S. When Chuck Norris does push-ups he isn't pushing himself up he is pushing the earth down! LMAO!

Okay seriously now! I have been on this site for nearly 2 years now and I am yet to meet one person on here face to face? I don't know what else I can say? I am seriously that unlikable?

I am open to suggestions, but if you want me to take charge and plan it then it would be a nice dinner with some fine wine. Even just coffee would nice I am pretty laid back when it comes to this kinda thing, but I do have a good imagination so put me to the test if you dare!LOL!