I am often getting told by people that they can't believe that i am single. They say i am good looking with a good figure, but to me i am just average. I am sensitive, trustworthy, sincere and give 100% once i am in a relationship. I have a good sence of humour and enjoy a good laugh. I am of a slim build, have reddish hair and green eyes. I am looking for someone similar to myself who i can relate with and share good and hopefully no bad times.please let me state one thing. i am not on here just for a fun time or a one night stand!!!!!!!!!!!! I am looking for a genuine and serious LTR with a soulmate. so if you are thinking replying with rude, suggestive comments the please dont bother. I have to admit most of my boyfriends have either been foreighn or ethnic but will date people with a white background. So if you think i am what you are looking for, then hopefully you are what i am looking for. If you can i would prefer photo profiles please. Oh yeah, did i mention i have a slightly crazy side to, up for a laugh! Limit myself to minimal drinking now. Last time i had a wild session i thought i was 16 and superwoman, tried to climb over a metal fence, got impaled on it, ha ha. So now i,m extra careful and put my idea of still being a spring chicken behind me, Boo hoo. I still like to have fun though. So come on all you single guys who are looking for a soulmate like me and get in touch! and lets see where it leads to, bye for now. One thing i do think about is that there has to be some kind of initial spark on that first date. Don,t you agree?where are you?the decent genuine guys.if your out there i,m waiting to hear from you.pronto!!!hadto ad this again cos it seems to be falling on deaf ears.....i do not want one nite stands or sex inuenuendos so only guys who are interested in getting to know the real me should get in touch,not the ones just looking for fun!!! i,m finding this dating thing hard,sometimes i wish we could just skip this part and get straight on to the next level,and i don,t mean straight between the sheets!!! sorry to dissapoint you. i would like to get married again someday,or at least live with a partner,its just the starting over agan with someone new thats hard,getting to know their likes,dislikes,habits etc.i,m sure theres a lot of you out there that will relate to what i,m saying!but who have stayed in a marrige too long already for that very same reason.all i can say is i know what i want and the reason i,m here looking for what i am,i,ve said it as truthfully as i can,and if i,ve scared anyone off then they obviously arn,t looking for the same as me,so they should just move on to what they are looking for,so there you have it,thats me and what i want,try me or move on.p.s. i don,t bite!!! not untill after dark anyway.!!!!!!!!!! question . can anyone tell me when you buy a top,no matter whether its cheap or expensive the bloody seams at the sides when you,ve worn them a few times end up one slightly at the front and the other ends up at the back??// i use to think it was just a womans thing,you know,cos we constantly lug around handbags, but its not, i,ve made a concious effort not to wear a bag on my shoulder purley to see if its that what does it,but its not. so if anyones the answer to this. i beg you tell me!! cos i find it so annoying. and have to throw them away.!!

on a first date i,d like to be surprised. Maybe something different from the norm!First impressions count, after all.and we,ll see how it go,s from there!

Male
Age between 35 and 44
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married