wow were does one start, i am a careing 42year old man who loves life, love to have fun an be silly in the right situation, liv in own home, two children one lives with their mum in wellington,my 16yr old son lives wth me an still at school, I am an old school type of guy when it comes to honesty trust/ not affraid to commit to a healthy relationship have lot of empathy,gd listener, have been told im easy on the eye.cheers paul

now im really on the spot, first date i would cook a meal for the two of us, do my bit to be romantic for the lady, be honest,listen to what she has to say enjoy her campany