Here's a few things to ponder?

I believe...That you can do something in an instant, that will give you heartache for life.

I believe...That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I believe...That the people you care about most, in life are often taken away from you way too soon!

No man or woman is usually, worth your tears, but the one who is, won't make you cry!

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people, before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet that person, we will know how to be grateful!

Always remember if anyone ever needs your help, (Help them with a smile) and remember it will always come back to you.

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About Me, First of all Im not Mr Perfect, just a Regular guy!

Small town country dweller,was married 12 years---now divorced 14, seeks companion for shared times, fun, laughter, passion, romance, enjoying new things and places, long talks, long walks, simple pleasures, and experiencing the world, while looking into each others eyes. Possibly searching for someone willing to relocate from afar, if we hit it off, after taking time to get to know one another. Lets start as friends, dating, companionship, and then consider long term. Age is not a barrier to me as it might be to some. However Im NOT looking to be a Sugar Daddy, Im looking for a mate, companion, sweetheart,and lover, and will only settle for the right one. Not Misses Perfect, just the right one for me, someone that I can complete, and she can complete me, that we would complement each other as a couple. I'm willing to take the time to get to know her. I dont jump into anything with both feet, and my eyes closed, been there done that. Im not really interested in one night stands, but a lifetime lover, sweetheart and companion, in a monogamous relationship. I have known younger women that were more maturer than others, and likewise older women that were immature and acted like 12 year olds. (Smile ladies---Theres alot of men like that out there too, many of which think with something other than their brain)---.

What I am seeking is a woman who is mature enough, no matter her age, that knows how to be a woman, and yet still strives to be young at heart, still looking for the old fashioned story book romance, still wanting to be swept off her feet, and live happily ever after, if that is truly possible. (With slight variations, to match modern day times) A woman that still has the yearnings and desires of a child, even though like me, she grows a little older each and every day. One who looks for the good and humor in all situations.But with that new knowledge of each and every day, comes the evolution of maturity, of living and experiencing life. Someone who looks forward to hearing my voice, a gentle touch, a passionate kiss, a warm embrace, and in time, a passionate lifetime of making love while still able,LOL, not only with our eyes, but hearts body, and soul. Someone to spoil and be spoiled by, not in material things, but by sharing of ourselves with each other. One who wants to grow old together with me, and still striving to hold on to the joys of youth, still not wanting to completely grow up, yet able and willing, to stand beside me, as I will her, to weather any storm life brings us. A Gal that I can gently wrap my arms around, to love, cherish and protect, and she wont want me to ever let go. Once I find her, I will no longer be here, as I want to only be her favorite, one and only. And devote all my attention, and efforts to that very special Lady.......

I am a Christian religious man, I believe there is a spiritual entity out there somewhere. I consider myself an old fashioned Gentleman, and am old fashioned in many ways. I strive for a healthy lifestyle. I attend church occasionally, and believe in God in my heart. However just because I believe in him, does not give me the right to tell anyone else how to believe, or not believe. Or how to, or not to worship their God, no matter their faith. I feel everyone should be able to freely, worship and believe in him in their own way.

I Enjoy eating out, just about all foods, as well as staying in. Outdoors, traveling, camping, rivers,fishing, looking at the stars,Sci Fi, old cars & restoring them, 4 wheeling, motorcycles -although I dont currently have one maybe get another someday-, classic cars, bbq's, board games,cards,pool,darts,animals and critters, and yes Nascar, although I dont watch it much anymore. Also staying in,cuddling,snuggling,spooning,talking,banter,laughter,(COMMUNICATING),flirting with my mate, giving massages, and sharing dreams.I can cook, clean, sew, and even do the dishes, as well as take out the trash. I keep my home clean, although not always everything perfectly in its exact place, though I try , and I try to keep my vehicles clean as well.

I am house broken, I like to playfully tease.LOL..But know when to be serious too. Im pretty much easy going, open and flexible to most things. And in all fairness and honesty, I do wear glasses part time to be able to read, my hairline is just slightly beginning to recede, I eat healthy and try to stay fit, and my original teeth are still good so far,LOL, plus I still have a great sense of humor.:-)

I am affectionate, sensual, suave-devonair (sometimes humerous), funloving,playful, adventurous,a great sense of humor, serious when necessary, honest and straightforward. I still enjoy opening doors for a woman. Love to pick and be picked at by ones I care about. I enjoy movies, theaters, or renting. Traveling, flea markets, antiques, history, civil war, metal detecting, treasure hunting,Sci Fi, walks, talks, the great outdoors, camping, and so very many more interests. I love children and feel they are a gift, and a blessing . You can learn so many things from them, as you watch them grow..... I have 2 stepsons,I still see when I can, and am a firm believer that any man can father a child, but it takes a real man to be a father....I also love animals :-)...

If you are curious, please feel free to drop me a line, or chat online, and take a chance. Would rather that you contacted me, that way I know that you might be interested. I will favorite place a few that I am interested in , and see if the interest might be mutual. But occasionally I will attempt to contact some, whom I feel a keen interest in. If nothing else, you just might make a new friend. Nothing ventured, nothing gained........And Always--Believe In The Magic Of Your Dreams--

Also, Im not a player, or a person to be played. Once I do find someone that wants to begin something with me. I will no longer be available, as I want to take the time to devote my efforts toward them.

Where, and When is optional. The most important thing is What, and With Whom. The right company, and an open honest communication, can lead to anything a heart desires, if that is where fate deems it to be. Everything starts with Hello ~

So, if you want devotion, a soft place to fall, a rock to lean on, conversation, someone to hold you, make you feel safe and loved, apply within. I want to miss you when you've just left, I want you to smile each time we see each other, I want us to call each other just to say Hi ... & no matter where we are, there is no other place we want to be, than with each other.

~~If I hugged you, would you never let go? If I kissed you, would you cherish that moment? If I reached for your hand, would you take mine gently? If I fall for you, would you catch me? Or would you let me fall to the ground?~~

"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. "

"Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. And enjoy your life."