I'm looking for a guy who is smart and funny and has a generosity of spirit, who maybe has had a few speedbumps in his life's journey, but hasn't become bitter because of it. I'd like a first date to include good food, marginally good wine and honest conversation. I'd like to find a man who isn't rigid and inflexible and who can kinda color a little outside the lines. I want someone who shares my moral compass. I work in a field that exposes me to the best of the best and the worst of the worst, and I have seen good and bad in each of them. I think it's time to unhunch my shoulders and let someone share my journey.