Hi.PLEASE READ WHAT I am saying here....saves time for us both as I KNOW what I am seeking and hope you do too.

I am actually 54 (on Mar. 2nd). I just wanted you to at least pull me up on the search engine. Pictures are recent and most people guess me at early 40's. I am super athletic and fit, exercising daily either at the gym or out in nature such as the beach doing the stairs, roller blading, hiking etc. Also: I am interested in someone only OVER 38 years old.

I have my own product line fashioned after my original paintings. I licensed my designs and a product line was created including calendars, greeting cards, magnets, photo magnet frames, folders, notebooks, photo albums etc....plus prints/giclees and commissioned original paintings. I also started an after school art program for kids over seven years ago and have a company running it now for me. I am an artist and a businesswoman.

About YOU: I am only looking for ONE PERSON so my criteria is below:

#1 I prefer an athletic build, full head of hair (not bald please) and no facial hair or be willing to shave.
#2. I would love it if you have already raised your kids and built your career and only do the things you love to do now
OR if you work still, are doing what you love to do. My kids are now 18 (girl) and 20 (boy) and both in college (straight A's...yes I think I have bragging rights!) and live full time with their Dad whom I get along with very well.
#3. I am most attracted to someone worldly, well traveled and can take the lead in important matters (someone I can trust will do a good job at it!) Someone that has an INTERESTING life.
#4. At LEAST 5'10" prefer 6'-6'3"

I believe in unquestionable integrity, impeccable character, gentlemanly behavior, and tender kisses that last for hours; I practice what I preach. Educated, yet never stops learning. I am seeking a mate who is very confident, self-assured and even-tempered with a modest, self-effacing style. An articulate communicator with a keen sense of humor and a clever wit, yet innately knows when to listen. A man who loves and deeply respects women. All women, your mothers included. A warm, kind heart, with the capacity to give unconditionally to those dear to him. Very romantic and very uninhibited. Someone who views monogamy with reverence, and not just because it makes for fine furniture. A man who is genuine, sincere, and honest with a well-honed moral compass; an old soul spiritually in tune. A passionate idealist grounded in pragmatic realism. A hard-bodied athlete who competes more with himself than with others. A delicate balance between responsibility and a walk on the wild side. And despite this description, your humility is deeply rooted; constantly evolving but forever imperfect.

IF I HAVE OFFENDED ANYONE MOVE ON. DO NOT EMAIL ME ABOUT IT. Save us both time. I don't mind being labeled "MS. Wrong for you".

Good luck in your search. I call it "compatible neurosis". Everyone is an individual. Whether or not we are that perfect fit...it's all about compatibilities.

I would like to only meet for a 5 minute cup of coffee or a short beach walk for the first meeting. Let's not waste anyone's time.I know within the first 3 seconds if I will have chemistry. The rest is whether we have enough in common to explore a friendship.

I don't do IM or many emails either and prefer someone local although I am open to living part time somewhere else.

I wish you much success in finding exactly what YOU are looking for.