What brings me to POF? Well, I have been divorced for more than a year, and was seperated way before that. I am ready to get back out there. I have been on here for over 2 years without much success. I have however met some nice guys, just not my match. I know he is out there somewhere...is he you??

My kids are my world. They are my main focus. Do you have kids?? FANTASTIC..I love kids. Do you not have kids?? Thats fine too, just know you have to like kids to be part of my life. Also know that I will not be having any more children. I will more than gladly accept anyones children and treat them as my own, but my days of physically having children are over.

I am a super sweet girl. I do not hate on anyone. I am probably way too nice for my own good but I will never change that. I have a big heart. I will go out of my way to help anyone, even a stranger. I am very affectionate. I am shy, but if you meet me, you will most likely get a hug from me right away, because I am a hugger!! I will tell you what I think about things, but I will try to not hurt feelings. I am sarcastic, and will mess with ya, but I am just playing. Never trying to be hurtful!But yes, I can be a smartass!! Better than being a dumbass, right??

I know that I want and need a partner. Someone who I can share my feelings with. Someone who I can ask how their day went and someone who will be interested in my day. I do not ask for much. I just want what everyone wants, an equal, loving relationship. Is that why you are here??

I am simplistic. No need to try and impress me with money, as I could really care less. Money is essential but it is not what makes up a relationship. Mutual respect, communication, and love are highly important. Without those 3 things, you might as well forget about making something last.

As for what I am looking for in a guy...someone who is real. Someone who is understanding that my kids come first. Someone who is willing to work towards something long term. Not looking for a one night stand. Not looking for a friend with benefits. I am looking for a friend that will hopefully someday become my better half. Someone who will kiss me and make me feel it from the top of my head to the tips of my toes and still be thinking about it weeks later!!

As for looks, yes, I do in some ways judge by looks. I believe we all do. I tend to like guys who look good in and out of baseball caps. Have a thing for nicely kept facial hair. Not like total beard, more like goatee. Oh and I do not like just a stache. It just is goofy looking to me...sorry fellas! I am more into clean cut hair...do like bald or shaved heads too. On the occasion though have found men with longer hair attractive. I tend to like darker hair on men, but of course, none of these things are a must.I tend to like skinny, slender, average to athletic/built body types. Yes, I know I am not close to a small nor average size girl but I also know what I am attracted to.

Location is negotionable for me but I do have limits.

If you want to know more about me, please feel free to message me.

JUST BECAUSE I WRITE YOU DOES NOT MEAN I AM HITTING ON YOU. I AM JUST A NICE PERSON WHO LIKES TO COMPLIMENT PEOPLE ON THINGS THAT THEY HAVE IN THEIR PROFILE OR A PICTURE OR WHATEVER. I FIND IT IRONIC HOW SO MANY PEOPLE WILL DELETE AN EMAIL WITHOUT EVEN READING IT. 99% OF EMAILS I WRITE ARE JUST ME BEING NICE, NOT TRYING TO HIT ON THAT PERSON. I READ EVERY EMAIL I RECEIVE

Something that will be decided once the first date has been set.


I am tired of kinda sorta liking someone. I am ready to be totally head over heels, can't stop thinking about them!!

If you do not have time to spend with me, do not bother contacting me. I am not saying everyday, but more than once every blue moon would be nice!! I am not looking for a texting, im'ing all the time buddy. Nor am I looking for someone who when we do get to see one another all we do is roll in the hay. I am looking for the real deal!!

Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. Rather it makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person, how wonderful it will be when the right one comes along. — Javan