Hi! Have you noticed how many people on this website say they like "walking through the park"? If that was true, there would be solid lines of people in every park in the area just walking aimlessly! Hmmm..... just an observation. I'm a genuine, down-to-earth person. People usually feel very comfortable with me. My friends all say that I am personable, funny, and that I have a good heart. (and, YES... I DO have friends!) LOL
Now, we all know by now that there are soooooo many gameplayers and liars and those with hidden agendas on these dating websites, right? So, MY mission is to find those who are FOR REAL. I've met some women on here who are GREAT people. Then, I've met some who weren't. But, I have yet to find THE ONE who I want to date exclusively. I'm not picky... God knows I have no right to be! But, I won't waste my time or yours if there is no "spark". (just to use one of the many generic terms on here)
I treat people as I want to be treated. And, I've come to realize that ALL people, especially those over 35 and on dating websites have baggage. IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIt's TRUE! And you know what? I can deal with that. I have baggage, and SO DO YOU. If you don't, then you've been living in a bubble, or a cave alone all of your life. And, I can handle the fact that everyone has baggage. The problems are with those who can't handle their baggage. Then, the baggage becomes "issues". Whoa! Can't handle that! Nobody likes to be compared to an ex, or crucified for the past sins of ex-spouses or ex-lovers. I don't do that, and neither should you. I like most things that guys like. Outdoor stuff, football, good music, a cold beer or two occasionally, good times with friends... Pretty normal stuff. If you want to know more about what I like, just ask.
I'm looking for a lady who is tired of doing the dating-website-thing, and just wants to find THE ONE as I do. Of course, our interests should be similar, but they don't have to be exact. I like experiencing new things, and you should, too. I want someone who is not in a rush to establish a serious relationship. Just start off slow, and let things develop at their own pace. I promise you, I'm not out to get you in bed the first date. Not the second one, either! Or, the third.... I like sex, but it's not my focus at this point. It should be the bonus of a relationship. Not the center of it. I believe in communication. Not into arguing, yelling, name-calling, etc... I believe in mutual respect for each other, and for each other's feelings. If you have kids, I'm fine with it. And, I don't believe in trying to change anyone.
So, if you want to get to know someone who isn't a BS Artist, and will treat you with the respect you deserve, (and even try to make it a FUN thing) then, email me. Good luck to all of you who are sincere, and are really looking for what you say you are!
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Please show this on your profile, if you know someone who has been eaten by a shark. LOL J/K
First meeting: Coffee, (Starbucks, or wherever) or a drink or two. NO DINNER ON THE FIRST MEETING! Otherwise, it would be a DATE, right??? Besides, why risk getting stuck into a long dinner on a first meeting, if there is no "spark"? Coffee or drinks, then you're free to go! Easy enough, and no worries!
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