I like to party with friends and have a good time, I have a good sense of humor and have been told I should have gone into comedy. I have a vast variety of interests and have had many cool life experiences as well as some bad ones, but that's life! I'd like to meet a woman near my area for dating, friendship, and possibly a relationship if one develops, I'm in no hurry though that is why I put "friends" in my seeking info. I'm not that good at telling the difference between a woman being friendly and a woman that is attracted to me, probably because I never dated that much, & the club/bar scene while fun at times, has been worthless for my meeting women. Most likely because I'm just being myself, not trying to "act" any particular way to attract women, & I'm usually misread if someone is studying me. I've been mistaken as conceited, attached/uninterested, and who knows what else, when I'm just hanging out. I don't like playing games and trying to figure out what/when to say the right thing to attract a woman or get her interest, every time I've changed my behavior, it's the 1 time I should have just been myself.

I'm open to suggestions, But I think the first date should be casual enough that if either party feels a definite lack of interest, they haven't committed to spending several hours in the others company. I would rather be told the truth, than wonder why a woman doesn't want to go on a 2nd date. I don't expect to have sex with women I date or become friends with, if that's meant to happen it will when the time is right, don't mistake me for being too nice or having a lack of interest in sex, I'm just not looking for casual sex with a stranger, I've met too many people that weren't what they seemed to be, based my 1st impression.