People come into your life for a Reason,a Season or a Lifetime.When someone is in your life for a reason it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.They have come to assist you through a difficulty to provide with guidance and support,to aid you physically emotionally or spiritually.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.Then ,without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time ,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.Sometimes they die.Sometimes they walk away.Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.What we must realize is that our need has been met,our desire fulfilled,their work is done.The payer you send up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a season because your turn has come to share,grow or learn.They bring you experience of peace or make you laugh.They may teach you something you have never done.They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.Belive it is real but only for a season.

Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons:things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.Your job is to accept the lesson , love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant

We convince ourselves that life will be better after
we get married, have a baby, then another.
Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough
and we'll be more content when they are.

After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with.
We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.
We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our
spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer
car, are able to go on a nice vacation,or when we retire.


The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now.
If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges.

Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have
and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special,
special enough to spend your time with...and remember that time
waits for no one.
.So, stop waiting

--until your car or home is paid off
--until you get a new car or home


--until your kids leave the house
--until you go back to school
--until you lose ten pounds
--until you gain ten pounds
--until you finish school
--until you get a divorce
--until you get married
--until you have kids
--until you retire
--until summer
--until spring
--until winter
--until fall
--until you die


There is no better time than RIGHT NOW to be happy.
Happiness is a JOURNEY, not a destination.

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Do not judge the life I live
I know, I'm not perfect- I don't live to be!
but, before you start pointing fingers,
make sure- your hands are clean!!!


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