Hey guys . . . . I am a happy, professional, adorable, playful, intelligent, somewhat of a tomboy, open-minded woman with a slightly sarcastic, sometimes quirky sense of humor. I like all the normal things, am a water baby in the summer and would like to find someone who enjoys that as well. I can dress up and go out with the best of them, but prefer casual evenings. . . listening to live music, campfires, dinners out, cooking out, sunsets, mostly the simple things in life.

Family is very important to me, I have 2 grown sons, one grandson and another on the way. I am fortunate to still have my parents, who live in town.

What I really want is someone to be a spider killer (seriously), my current method of sucking them up with the vacuum cleaner, then taking the vacuum outside to suck up some gravel (to stone them to death if they lived through the sucking up process)is time consuming and not really a guarantee that they are as dead as I need them to be.

I have a freakish love of music that few understand, it's mostly alternative, with a bit of heavy and some blues thrown in for good measure. A few of my favorite things are margarita's, italian food, laughing, being with family and friends, shoe shopping, and the time I spend with my grandson is the best time ever.

I consider myself to be a spiritual person, with a close relationship to God, however, I have little use for organized religion.

I am looking for that elusive man who has taken care of himself, has a sense of humor, knows how to put the toliet seat in the down position, is upbeat and positive, likes to get out and have fun, but also enjoys the intimacy of a quiet night in.

A first date, would either be coffee or a drink. Just a quick meet to see if there is a spark.