I tend to like the serious types. Life of the party types don't do it for me. I prefer spending time with one other person, not groups of people.
I love to travel by ship and train, not too into flying.
I like people who are ambitious and interesting, who prefer reading/conversation to bar hopping, who truly comprehend that life is short and don't sweat the small stuff.
Of course looks matter, but looks are in the eye of the beholder.
Looking for a guy who loves kids and animals, as my world is filled with both (although the kids aren't mine, I do spend a lot of time with my nephew and nieces).

Male
Age between 30 and 45
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke