Short curly/wavy hair
Blue eyes
My vision is perfect, I have no eyewear
Divorced living alone
Boston,Ma
I reside in an apartment
I have no children that I know of
American economy car
I have my own terminal and can call often
Market Reseach
Self employed
I would like to meet someone close to my age
I'm White
My work schedule varies
I often wear a fashionable hat
Blue is my favorite color
Camping / Hiking
Dancing
Rock & Pop
I have 5 - 8 siblings
An INDOOR person
I have never been overseas
Cat
I'm a dancin' machine
I do not drink
I do not smoke
I am rather fashionable
Gambling is a waste of money
It's a living
Very good looks
Filene's Basement
Yes, I am a religious person
Indepentdent
Indoors during the day
On the coast
Some College / Technical training
I am usually on time

Non fiction
Spring
No, I do not have a tattoo
Bars / Clubs
I prefer to watch movies at home
I wear 2 - 4 items of jewelry
I might like to go out sometime

I like to cook for myself
Television news
I go out on weekends
Seafood
Adventure
Power
I'll talk to others who start a conversation
Yes, I love to attend parties


1) Christian
2) Volunteer
3) Connected to my family
4) Exercise daily
5) middle class
6)Cat
7) Music
8) Dancing with the Stars
9)Love to walk
10) Love the ocean
11) Love Christmas
12) Love Shepard Smith 3pm fox!
13)Love thunder storms
14)Soft crisp winter snow
15) Flowers-roses-lilies-tulips
THE BOX WITHIN - written by Me

THE BOX WITHIN 1 There is a virtual world that exists inside the computer where lives are affected and shaped on a daily basis. That world has it's own definition and science of working elements. The people who pay rent to live in this world are from all walks of life and over time this virtual world becomes very real. Their daily communication with each other constitutes the central element of their lives. Instead of watching television, these individuals actively take part in their own daily melodrama of life without ever leaving the sanctity of their homes. All the elements of a successful movie take place within this box they have come to call home. Love affairs, divorces, deaths, marriages, murders, and basically all aspects of life take place or are triggered from within the realm of this virtual existence. It is easy to escape into this world. Instantly with a push of a button and a click of a mouse you are in the company of a mass of other people. You can easily slip into a world where the communication is often intense and very overwhelming. There is laughter, tears and sighs of relief. This new means of communication may free you or may keep you prisoner within your own self. Once caught up in this world it becomes extremely difficult to let it go. On a daily basis people share their hopes, desires and experiences. The Box provides those otherwise incapable of communicating the ability to express themselves. Individuals who are handicapped, deaf, and/or physically impaired experience life in a manner that they never expected. They talk to and relate to other individuals in a manners independent of their personal handicaps. This aspect of THE BOX opens up the lives of many and lets them achieve a sense of expansiveness and growth in their lives. This BOX WITHIN can be magic and a tool for external growth or it can also be a binding knot that can stifle your inner growth if used in the incorrect manner. Either way This Box Within is here to say and society as a whole needs to respect and admire it................ Box Within 1 written by me 12 years ago Box Within 2 witten 2005 THE BOX WITHIN 2 Over the span of twenty years the internet has expanded and evolved in vividly different ways. A large and growing essence has digressed into a sea of endless souls wasting extensive time conversing about basically nothing at all. Day after day individuals sit in front of their computers swept into a world of fantasy and fog. The computer has become their world and their ability to function in the real world diminishes over time. People become engrossed in the daily soap opera of personalities of people who they will never meet and who may not be real. It provides an environment filled with falsehoods, claims, and misrepresentations of who people really are, creating a virtual sense of their own reality. The addiction of the chat room overtakes their real life and becomes centrally important to them. In addition to the addiction of the daily chat, other forms of addiction become mixed into the equation. Many people who reside in the chat room world commingle this addiction with other addictions such as the use of drugs and alcohol. Now for the first time they can react, speak out, and misbehave at will without being accountable for their actions. The society of this chat community becomes a bonding experience that validates their anonymous behavior because so many others are participating. The entire experience is unhealthy both mentally and physically yet a network makes money for the Internet Service Provider from this emotional and oft times physical demise of it's users. The only way the person taking part in this daily monopoly sees the extent of damage being done is that they have to force themselves to actually detoxify from the elements that compose it. Total detoxification from the excess wasting of time and excess abuse of body and mind parallels the withdrawal associated with substance abuse. This addictive behavior of online activity becomes a reality and it has turned many people who could be valid, socially happy indivuals into weakened and diminished people afraid to leave the walls of their home. They basically give up on life itself for the BOX WITHIN that has now turned into their world. The Box controls them and they are not even aware of it. They allow the BOX to stunt their emotional and physical growth. Anything done in excess usually proves to be unhealthy and computer addiction is just that. It takes a lot of work to get away from that comfortable, anonymous world of the net. One has to do it emotionally and physically. One has to acknowledge that this addiction is real and it's being used as a crutch. Crossing the bridge of accepting that is half the battle; the next is to act on it. It's important to realize that these chat people are not your friends. The friend you have is you and your ability to control your life and not allow the BOX WITHIN to control you. The internet has moved into an era of creative growth but there is a clear downside to it's communication level that hinges on the negative and the largely unhealthy aspects of it’s absorption of the individual. We have to remember that the internet was created as a tool to grow and learn as well as com)

cunicate. It's effect depends on those who use it or choose to misuse it. I feel that in the past twenty years that monetary gain has overshadowed the importance of the emotional health of human beings. We need to step back and look at what is exactly taking place for ultimately we must all share responsibility for our own growth that of society. It is up to each of us to use technology to enhance humanity and it's our responsibility to be aware of its misuse. Written By- Jeanne St.Onge THE BOX WITHIN 3 JUNE-2008 This is the third segment of this lengthy article. We find ourselves now on the internet with an entire story unfolding. Real life has regressed to the existence of being online. From dating sites, to porn, to chat rooms the social aspect of this communication gets even more interesting every day. I can discuss each sector that I have mentioned. Dating sites- Human beings no longer have to meet each other the traditional way . Dating site are used in two distinct manners. In the first instance, the ethical searchers for love use it as a proper tool while in the second instance serial daters use it basically as a human supermarket. They simply find a potential partner to feed their physical and emotional needs and hold onto them as long as they are of use. When their usefulness expires they simply enter back into the dating site and find a new victim. There are those who simply use it for physical reasons alone. They meet multiple women each week for sexual reasons . These people have sex with multiple people not caring about the health risks or emotional damage being done. Porn Sites-Our society has taken sexuality to another level online and it has moved into a very negative aspect. Porn sites are breaking up the family unit and the backbone of the society. The act of love and caring has digressed to a sea of lost souls seeking sexual relief. Humanity has taken the back seat to physical needs. There was a time when the largest sex organ in the body was the brain. Somehow it's left the brain and settled itself into the abyss of physical insanity. They endanger the young who are prey for abusers and they rip apart the true beauty of love and it's perfect design. This issue has to be addressed for the sustenance and growth of the family and its structure which is the glue that keeps us grounded. Healthy sexual love does not have to be degrading or demeaning. Chat Rooms-This element of the Net has many forms. The healthy communication of individuals is an asset when the content is positive, used as an educational tool and a support system. The negative aspect is when the communication is used to hurt or emotionally injure another human being. People are using it as an emotional punching bag and a release of their own frustrations. Misdirected anger is passed out in a hateful form because that person cannot deal with his or her own problems in a healthy manner and plays out in the power struggle, the formation of groups and cliques.