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A little about me.....Well, I'm casual, sensual, very intelligent, modest - lol, laid back, chivalrous, mature yet playful, spontaneous, very giving, I always do what I say I'm gonna do because I have to. I believe in karma; what comes around, goes around; do unto others etc.,etc.

I like to go out with my friends for dinner and drinks(or sometimes just for drinks). I'm very spontaneous and love to go on weekend trips(weekdays if you can get the time off). I have a personal trainer that I see about twice a week. I've been going for about 8 months now. Trying to get back into shape, but it's hard with all the dinner and drinks. About every third weekend I go ride ATV's with younger friends in their twenties. I play softball in the summer for a local bar. And I go skiing in the winter. (I hope this doesn't make me sound like an active person, cause I'm not) I like to watch movies/ can't stand commercials. I read/learn stuff on the internet - I hop from link to link and read things that interest me for hours on end. I don't watch sports, but was on every sport in high school and some in college. I have my hiking boots and stuff in my truck ready to go; and once did a hiking first date. I try to hide the fact that I'm a bit geeky; I'm the type of person that knows all the answers on jeopardy, not just in one or two categories. My friends range from bikers to doctors, 50 to 25 years old and I fit in with any and all of them. I look like the big mean bouncer type, but i'm softspoken and smart. Hard on the outside with a warm chewy center. lol. I am a man's man but I am definitely not your typical guy.

Type of work - Well I really don't work much. I own a self sufficient business, so I have a lot of free time. I usually go in to work when everybody else has left to do the necessary paperwork/banking/bills etc.

My Ideal Mate:
Someone edgey, intelligent, sexy, laid back, classy, stylish, witty, sarcastic, cool, fun, and sensual, likes to kiss, cuddle, open, tells it like it is, and is happy. Life is too short for 'the glass half empty' people. Oh, I left out spontaneous, you gotta be spontaneous. Life is also too short to wait around, over-think things, and make future plans; by the time you did all of that, the fun has passed you by. But, ultimately, it all comes down to chemistry. You don't have to be Miss America to have what I'm looking for; but you gotta bring something to the table. I'll be able to see it when I look into your eyes the first time we meet. Sparks.

Here's what I don't like:
I don't like to waste my time. I can't stand the constant back and forth emails for weeks on end. You can cover a month of email in a 10 minute face to face conversation(and you usually know if it might work out within those first 10 minutes after meeting someone). Also it shouldn't take two weeks to arrange to meet at a Starbucks for a freakin' cup of coffee. If you require that much pre-planning, you're either not for me(spontaneous), or you're trying to meet every other fish on here. I usually cut right to the chase and arrange to meet right away. If you're a scaredy-cat don't reply. I CAN'T STRESS THOSE LAST TWO LINES ENOUGH, PLEASE RE-READ THEM.

FAQ:
I've been told that my profile is wordy and weird, but I included this section anyway so we don't have to play the email/phone-tag game where you ask these 'get to know the real you' questions. So here goes: I'm of Italian origin 100%, not Spanish. Definitely not a cop or military; never ever happen. I just had gotten a short haircut the day I took that picture, so stop asking. I took two pictures so you wouldn't think the first one was a fluke. My body type is like a linebacker, very broad shouldered, I'm a big guy. I have one brother and two sisters, and I'm the youngest(by alot). I've been told that I am an excellent lover. I don't have a favorite book or movie, I always look forward to the next one(and same answer for favorite foods, i like to try everything). I listen to and enjoy ALL music(yes even rap and classical), it depends on my mood. I tried being a Harley guy and had long hair. I was a small time race car driver for a season. Grew up in Bergen county NJ. I went to college to be a doctor but came out with a degree in psychology. Briefs. I promise that my picture is from 8/20/07. It is however a VERY GOOD pic of me(who would put a bad picture up?)I have ALL my hair(no bald spot - yet.lol.). I kinda like that dancing banana guy. I don't like long walks on the beach, pina coladas are too sweet, and getting caught in the rain sucks.

ttyl,
Tom


ps. I know there are a million guys on here willing to chase after you even though you exhibit bad or disintersted behavior, but that's not me. I don't want to feel like a stalker. Be conscientious; call or email back when someone contacts you. It's nice to be nice. oh.... and if you're gonna call me from a restricted number, don't bother, scaredy-cats are not my type.

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