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A little about me.....Well, I'm casual, sensual, highly intelligent, modest - lol, laid back, chivalrous, mature yet playful, spontaneous, very giving, always joking and sarcastic. I almost always do what I say I'm gonna do because I have to. I believe in karma; what comes around, goes around; do unto others etc.,etc.

I like to go out with my friends for dinner and drinks(or sometimes just for drinks). I'm very spontaneous and love to go on weekend trips(weekdays if you can get the time off). About every third weekend I go ride ATV's with younger friends in their twenties. I play softball in the summer for a local bar. And I go skiing in the winter. (I hope this doesn't make me sound like an active person, cause I'm not) I like to watch movies/ can't stand commercials. I read/learn stuff on the internet - I hop from link to link and read things that interest me for hours on end. I don't watch sports, but was on every sport in high school and some in college. I try to hide the fact that I'm a bit geeky; I'm the type of person that knows all the answers on jeopardy. My friends range from bikers to doctors, 50 to 25 years old and I fit in with any and all of them. I look like the big mean bouncer type, but i'm softspoken and smart. Hard on the outside with a warm chewy center. lol. I am a man's man but I am definitely not your typical guy.

My Ideal Mate:
Someone edgey, intelligent, sexy, laid back, classy, stylish, witty, sarcastic, cool, fun, and sensual, likes to kiss, cuddle, open, tells it like it is, and is happy. Life is too short for 'the glass half empty' people. No prudes allowed either; if I wanted to be celibate, I would have stayed married. Oh, I left out spontaneous, you gotta be spontaneous. Life is also too short to wait around, over-think things, and make future plans; by the time you did all of that, the fun has passed you by. But, ultimately, it all comes down to chemistry. You don't have to be Miss America to have what I'm looking for; but you gotta bring something to the table.

Here's what I don't like:
I don't like to waste my time. I can't stand the constant back and forth emails for weeks on end. You can cover a month of email in a 10 minute face to face conversation(and you usually know if it might work out within those first 10 minutes after meeting someone). Also it shouldn't take two weeks to arrange to meet at a Starbucks for a freakin' cup of coffee. If you require that much pre-planning, you're either not for me(not spontaneous), or you're trying to meet every other fish on here. I usually cut right to the chase and arrange to meet right away. If you're a scaredy-cat don't reply. I CAN'T STRESS THOSE LAST TWO LINES ENOUGH, PLEASE RE-READ THEM.

FAQ:
I've been told that my profile is wordy and weird, but I included this section anyway so we don't have to play the email/phone-tag game where you ask these 'get to know the real you' questions. So here goes: I'm of Italian origin 100%, not Spanish. Definitely not a cop or military; never ever happen. I just had gotten a short haircut the day I took that picture, so stop asking. My body type is like a linebacker, very broad shouldered; I'm a BIG guy. I have one brother and two sisters, and I'm the youngest(by alot). I've been told that I am an excellent lover. I don't have a favorite book or movie, I always look forward to the next one(and same answer for favorite foods, i like to try everything). I listen to and enjoy ALL music(yes even rap and classical), it depends on my mood. I tried being a Harley guy and had long hair. I was a small time race car driver for a season. Grew up in Bergen county NJ. I went to college to be a doctor but came out with a degree in psychology. Briefs. I promise that my picture is from 8/20/07. They are however VERY GOOD pics of me(who would put a bad picture up?). I have ALL my hair(no bald spot - yet.lol). I kinda like that dancing green banana guy. It is average length, but thick. I don't like long walks on the beach, pina coladas are too sweet, and getting caught in the rain sucks.

ttyl,
Tom


ps. I know there are a million guys on here willing to chase after you even though you exhibit bad or disintersted behavior, but that's not me. I grow tired of the chase early-on(and I don't want to feel like a stalker). LET ME KNOW IF YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED;IT'S OK. I'LL SURELY TELL YOU. Be conscientious; call or email back when someone contacts you. It's nice to be nice. oh.... and if you're gonna call me from a restricted number, don't bother, scaredy-cats are not my type.

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