9/19/9 Further updates:

Please be a non-smoker, no tats, and 'fully' divorced if so, I'm not the rebound man. Not trying to offend but I'm looking longterm and know what I want, wish everyone the best :) And if I've written you saying 'hello' and you didn't write back, please don't keep clicking on me. I'm not that exciting :)

7/19/9 updates below

I am 42, 6'0, 175lbs, brown hair and eyes. Reasonably fit, active, non smoker, social drinker, and mechanically inclined. I can either fix it or pay somebody to. Most people would describe me as easy-going, and down to earth. On the Keirsey scale I'm an ISFJ, guardian protector,raised in the country and educated in the city. I've never been the bar hopping type, but I enjoy a night on the town with friends. My career is doing well, its definately challenging and rewarding enough.

I enjoy most outdoor stuff and indoors to. I really want to hike in the mountains here in NC since I haven't done that yet. I've lived here a few years and have been spending too much time working and getting the house setup.

I'm seeking a woman that compliments my attributes with her own. If she has children I'm fine with that as I have nothing against kids of course, I AM one at heart, but I'm NOT seeking to start a family at this age. I would be delighted to "round-out" one! All I want is a lifetime of love and happyness, I'll gladly give the same...

If you believe in love,honesty,humility,loyalty, snuggling, compassion,tenderness and caring then I could be your man. As mushy as this is gona sound I really love spending time with my woman and making sure she is happy, life is soo much more fun and enjoyable when shared! I don't need a woman or to be in a relationship to be happy, but I've been really fortunate in my life and want to share it with my match and she share her happyness with me. I'm not perfect but I strive to excel everyday in all that I do and continue to grow as a person.

I would like her to have a positive outlook on life, we've all been through some "stuff" so it helps to keep a sense of humor I think. I'm the glass is half full type. Theres a lot more I could say but part of the fun with dating is getting to know the other person!

Meet in a public place, have a cup of coffee, drink etc.. See if we like each other and take it from there, its not rocket science :)