im looking for a strong independent women who can take care of herself financially someone is who is looking for a man for emotional needs to be affectionate with to be respected and to be loved im not looking for a women who just takes and not gives a relationship should be on equal grounds financially it shouldnt be about money that doesn't mean i wont pay for the first few dates or spoil my lady i will it just means she gives me the same treament in return i myself dont have alot and i have come to aprreciate it and not take it for granted i have been basically poor all my life and i am happy i never put too much importance on money because when you do people tend to be selfish and greedy thats not to say that if i hit the lotto and become super rich it wont change me it will and maybe not for the better but the fact is im not,lol anyway i believe in honesty trust and loyalty as well as understanding in a women i myself can be brutally honest i also dont drive for three reasons i suffer from anxiety which makes me too nervous i never had a real desire for it i always relyed on friends and family as well as public transportation plus the stores were always close to me i could just walk there also i simply cant afford a car i know how to save money i have saved money in the past and im good at balancing my budget i just never saved enough for a car and even if i could i wouldn't want one its simply not worth it to me i have done just fine without it i got over long term deppression moved out of my parents house and im now living in a apartment i am a complety independent person i am happy being on my own but i am lonely though at risk of sounding cliche i am looking for that missing piece to make me whole i am also a shy person at first until i get to know you then im pretty easy going laid back fun loving i also have a good sense of humor my humor varies depending what mood im in i love cats as well i had four of them at one time i also wanted to say i respect anyone who isnt afraid to be themselves no matter what other people may think i also dont like women who try to change men you should accept me for me if i want to change i will listen to your advice and change on my own terms i am no fixer upper im happy just the way i am anyway if i sound interesting to you and you want to get to know me more then just email me

on the first date i would keep it simple coffee or drinks just someplace where we can talk and get to know each other