I am a Man of my word, I am loyal to my friends and family. I have great relationships with my friends and family. I am not a stiff and serious type of person I spend just about every spare min. I can on a surfboard or playing guitar, and economics is another pasion of mine. I grew up in a tough town in south Phila. so there is a part of me that is rough around the edges "cityboylike" not getto.

I am settled in my career and settled with my "sons mother" kidding we have a great relationship. I am settled in San Leandro not planning to move for a while. It would be nice to have someone special to share my life with though. Not someone to cling onto but someone that is standing on their own, that has her own life and friends. She would like to share that life with me as well.

She would have a strong view and opinion on current affairs it would definately be O.K. if we did not agree on everything. I like to debate but be ready to handle it ( we would end up laughing about our disagreements. I think I am starting to fantasize on the perfect fit for me. Tell me about yourself?

I like to meet at coffee shops first I think it has a neutral feeling to it, after some chat of course.Then I like to be spontaneous who knows how we are feeling that day. I definately prefer engaging environment, not bar or movies.