I have recently returned from a year in Iraq. I am a single dad of two boys. I love my responsibilities to them. So, if you are one of those Fayetteville gals who just loves to shake it at ITZ or the Big Apple, I am probably not interested. I like to go out occassionally, but would prefer to be home with my boys and perhaps someone special. I have been in the military for 18 years. I spend alot of time with my kids. I like to be outdoors but like to be inside as well. I am comfortable in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt. I can clean up though lol! My profile says that I am in Hawaii but I transfered to Fayetteville, NC in Feb 08. I am looking for someone that will turn my head and twist my soul. I stay pretty fit since it is required of me and desire the same of you. You don't have to run marathons or even run at all, but I would prefer someone with an active lifestyle. I would like to find someone who can handle taking things slow and understands that its not a race. My tag name says it all.....sometimes its not the catch but the chase. Can you catch me?

I prefer to meet for coffee. Just a quick moment to get to know one another without the distraction then we can go from there. If coffee isn't your thing maybe we could go for a walk down town.