I have “friends” listed on here because if I do meet someone off here, I want to meet as friends and go from there.

I am a person that goes out of my way for friends and those I care about and enjoy being social. I am very non judgmental and I don't jump to conclusions but wait till people's personality shines through to know for sure if they are full of it or a sincere person. I believe in people and tend to be too trusting at times. I would like to find someone who can be nutty with me, encourage me to be nuttier, who can make me laugh and laugh at my stupid jokes. Who can listen to me and want me to listen to them. To be able to have good conversation and debates, or just talk about simple stuff and enjoy each other's company. I like to go see events, shows, movies, etc but really like them better when you are with someone you can experience them with and part of the experience is taking in their reactions and feeding off their excitement and wonder. I like little things that are endearing, yet don't worry about the small negatives people do. I believe in actions speak louder than words. If I feel that the person I am with is a good fit and they make me happy and I can look back and see that almost every day seemed great with this person, than that to me is what makes me content. If you want to know more about me, feel free to look me up on face book patterso at bcm.edu

I am looking for someone attractive, not materialistic, laid back, independent, liberal minded, and fun.

By the way.. IM's don't usually work because they are blocked by my pop up blocker and I don't notice. Send me a msg. I don't mean to be rude, but I don't really msg people back with no pics, I figure I provide mine at least you could provide yours. Don't want to find out I am talking to so middle aged fat guy lol (it happens!). I think you can add them to the msg anyways.

Get to know the person over coffee, then maybe go for a walk, dinner, or drinks... See if there are initial sparks and then take it from there.