It's not the avoidance of problems, but how you deal with them... is what makes us who we are. There's always time. When I wait, for say an order... I'll spend that time watching and learning about what's around me. A breath of air, a quipet from another table... a carelesly placed simle or laugh. I enjoy living.

The time is perfect for a quite breakfast over looking the harbor... bacon and eggs? Bring a jacket... its cold. Casual, dressy... warm-ups on the beach. In the mood for a more formal date... sitting by the fire ordering a steak and some wine. A kind word and a good outlook make for excellent company and conversation.