I an attractive blonde lady who soft hearted ( DAMMIT)I look much younger than my
chronological age, I figure its from lack of suntanning, and smoking. I don't drink now, but I still like going out and having a good time. I have been fairly quiet
raising my 8 yr old, but since his dad gets him on a more regular basis- I am getting some time out LMAO. I am looking for a kind, gentle(man) who knows how to treat a lady. I still appreciate the finer things in live- but I don't expect a man to buy them for me. I have lived rich and I have lived poor-and you can still be happy. I have had some close calls in my life..but I think it is my time to have some for myself. I prefer men around my own age or a little younger..but who knows.
I love animals, have a dog and 2 cats. I love music,dining out- asian food is my favorite. If you treat me right I will treat you right. I am learning to stand up for myself, as I can be a bit shy...but if someone hurts my son..whatchout mamma bear shows her strength. I guess one of the most important things is Im not the tiny
little thing that some guys want, that's not me. I also prefer guys that are the same..heavier set guys appeal to me. I love laughing and a great sense of humor is a huge asset..I can have a warped sense of humor but I like that about myself!

Well time for an update. What I am not looking for- since I don't understand the psychobabble of what all the must nots are at the end of my profile.
Im not interested in talking about sex in Msn..I guess if you are willing to give your msn or other addies you want to talk about sex. Im not into phone, cyber sex. Obviously a little bit of flirting on chat is fine- Im not a nun(might as well be)but I prefer to find out that stuff later.Its good to find out if we have the same likes and dislikes- but physical intimacy thing I prefer in person.
I have had some issues with guys wanting to meet in person but not wanting to talk in person. In order to meet someone I need to "hear" someone's voice. When I have asked people-here or my IRL friends why someone wouldn't want to talk on the phone, they have said either they have something or someone to hide, or are extremely shy.If you are extremely shy tell me that and we don't need to talk for hours, nor will I stalk you Im a tad busy to do that. I have updated.. my profile a SMILING PICTURE! so hopefully that will help those.. who would like to see this!

I would like to meet for cofee before a first date..just to meet to see if there is any connection. If we seem to like eachother we could go to comedy club to see if we have the same sense of humor which is very important to me. Laughing, makes people at ease and brings on endorphins which would bring a nice date to an end.

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