Never been all that good at this kind of stuff, but i can't impress a girl unless she knows me on some level right?

First off, i am not looking for random incounters, or games/drama. Ideally i am looking for something that will lead somewhere, and meaningful, like long term or marriage
Now for me to describe my ideal woman is hard, I don't have an ideal look or anything, but i am a sucker for a good smile.
I would like a girl that can fuel my soul and stir my mind, challenge me or teach me new things is always nice :) (please no crazies)

OK About me, I am single(i should be on this site right) never married i would like to fine someone to settle down with and be with forever, and happy :P
I have a lot of interests, as of right now job wise i work for a small company that dabbles in children s birthday parties, (under 10ish) festivals, carnivals, parades, I am primary there catering manager, for weddings, and stuff like that, I hope i am a good cook, people pay to eat my food :P I work part time at the Stockton stadium doing concerts and hockey games as a bartender. (free shows)
In my free time i like to spend time with my little nephew if u look closely he is in a couple of my photos, He is also the one that gave me the name "unspeakable acts" something to do with i look like a monster in a game he likes, lol its big and ugly :P
I believe in romance, i think showing how u feel (and i don't mean sex)means more then just saying it, the little things mean so much more then anything
I am planing on learning how to scuba dive this summer (as of now its to dam cold)
I love the water but burn in the sun, :P I like movies but don;t watch much tv, i do like to bow, play pool, and water ski, been doing it since i was 5, I love the snow even tho its been a while since i went snow boarding,

Since first dates are about finding that spark and learning about each other,
I think something curative is the first way to show yourself (anyone can do dinner and a movie, come on honny lets go to taco bell, u can order off the dollar menu)

But if i came over and we spent time and cooked together while talking and getting to know each other, and then had dinner, maybe rented a movie then that would be nice ;)

Besides i have new dishes i need to test out on someone :) lol are u brave enough?