Hello I am looking for someone to date and eventually spend my life with.I am a little more romantic than most guys I think. I always treat my girlfriend like gold. I enjoy buying a girl flowers or anything really I love to see the smile.I do it because I want to, not because I feel its necessary. There's no real type of girl that I am looking for, but I do enjoy women who are funny kind sweet and are not too focused on money or status. I do have goals in life but none of them involve getting rich. I work and I like my job I enjoy it but it's not my life,and it never will be. It's cliche but I believe that love is all you need, when anything wrong happens in your life love will make you stronger. I am very affectionate but not clingy. I enjoy spending a lot of time with a girl but at the same time I can take things as slow/casual as you want.I don't know what else to say this site is a little weird to me but if your interested send me a message and we can meet for coffee or something.

I decided to put a bit more on here, some interests and goals/things I want to do
- learn kendo
- lose my belly by swimming and ping ponging it off
- would like to find a gym buddy as I hate to go alone
- backpack south america starting from mexico
- I am hoping to buy a used 28ft sail boat by next summer
- take sailing lessons
- learn how to bake, I can cook just never tried baking
- buy some art
- become fluent in spanish(can speak already just not fluent), italian, french and norweigen
- go back to cuba
- meet a very special girl, a soul mate or whatever you want to call it, someone who I can be 100% with, tell all my thoughts and secrets, someone who loves hugging and the intimacy we share, and when were 80 will still want to be holding hands everywhere we go.

Good Luck to everyone on here
-Derek


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I am always open as to what to do and where to go for a first date. Dinner at a nice restaurant is a good start, maybe some live music at a small club or anything that allows us to get to know each other. Movies are usually not a first date activity as you spend two hours not talking. Of course if its not raining the beach is my favorite place.