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IT'S CHOICE - NOT CHANCE - THAT DETERMINES YOUR DESTINY ¯`·.¸>«(((º>

Am I the only one that wants to click on some of the photos, then I realize that they are an ad.

A happy life is just a string of happy moments. But most people don't allow the happy moment, because they're so busy trying to get a happy life.

At my age I am all about common interests. I find more enjoyment in life if we share common goals, morals, values & recreational interests.

A wise person once said, "It is not in the way you touch and stimulate your lover when you climb into bed. It is in every word, and every action, from the time you wake up each day, to the time you close your eyes each night. It is more than a touch, more than a kiss. It is eyes meeting eyes, and minds on fire in a long soothing dance. It's in all that draws you to your lover, and in all that draws them to you. It is the act of loving, and it never ends.

I am looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman.... while there must be the initial physical attraction, it is truly what lies within a man's heart that will hold my attention, and touch me the deepest. He'll know how to keep a relationship growing ...not just going, which involves romancing each other on a full time basis. He will always be satisfied with having one good woman in his life, and be content with developing a relationship with her, and not always be looking to see if there is something better out there. I don't want someone I can live with...I want someone that I cannot bear the thought of living without! I want someone who wakes up every morning and tells me he loves me....not because he feels it's expected, but because it's what he truly feels, deep in his heart.

I once mentioned that phrase 50-50 to my Dad. He then went on to tell me this.... A relationship should be 60%-40%. You should love the person enough to want to go past the 50% marker & give & give more. And if the other person loved you back he would also be giving 60+%. This is true Love that will flourish for an eternity.

I have only been in Love once in my life, & if possible, I would like to experience it again.

"Dream as if you'll live forever.. Live as if you'll die today !"

I have had enough Drama in life..."SO"...If you don't show me your true colors right away, I'll eventually see them. Say what you mean & mean what you say or just go away! I don't mean to sound crass but I am over the games that some men can play.

I learned long ago that life isn't lived day to day. Life is in the seconds, as you never know when your last second of life will be.

Don't tell me you have no baggage, we all do! I learned that when you think you have unpacked your trunk there is usually something you'll discover that you forgot. Maybe, an episode will happen to remind you of a previous incident. Life is more about evolving & re-creating the "Who you want to be." Regrets...We all have them, nothing worse in life than having to take responsibility for your own actions, but it is a healthy approach to moving on. Yes, I am guilty, I have my regrets in life, that I will forever be sorry for & some baggage, but I am always working in it. I don't claim to be perfect but I do my best.

I am looking for someone that wants to have fun in life. I have made my life, at least interesting to me.

I believe that education never ceases in life so if you have been complacent & decided long ago that you already knew enough, Don't bother with me because you would bore me to death. Just about everything in life is in a book somewhere. "Go find one."

I am a very active person, so please No couch potatoes.
Just keeping it real.... I prefer tall men, I am sorry if I offend anyone. Don't know why I am that way, it is what it is.. XOXOXO

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The list below was taken from my E-Harmony assessment, I did not write them but, I think they nailed who I am & what I need.
MUST HAVE'S
Sense of Humor...
I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy the humorous side of life.
Passionate...
I must have someone who is willing to explore our sexual desires with passion and understanding.
Loyal...
I must have someone I can count on to always support me.
Communicator...
I must have someone who is good at talking and listening.
Emotionally Generous...
I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love.
Exciting...
I must have someone who isn't afraid to take a risk and who sees life as an adventure.
Verbal Intimacy...
I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest emotional thoughts and desires.
Affectionate...
I must have someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection.
Conflict Resolver...
I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather than win arguments or conflicts within our relationship.
Patience...
I must have someone who can handle life's frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady, demeanor.

CAN'T STANDS...
Lying...
I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me.
Petty...
I can't stand someone who focuses on imperfection.
Cynicism...
I can't stand someone who generally sees the world from a cynical perspective.
Cheating...
I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
Lazy...
I can't stand someone who likes to spend excessive time sleeping, resting or being a "couch potato."
Self-Centered...
I can't stand someone whose main topic of conversation is himself/herself.
Infidelity...
I can't stand someone who engages in sex outside a committed relationship.
Mean Spirited...
I can't stand someone who has a devious nature and is mean to others.
Denial...
I can't stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault in their own actions.
Television Junkie...
I can't stand someone who constantly watches television.
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