I am confident and sexy. I am engaging with the right person. My eyes sparkle when you interest me. I am independent, but like to have someone to hang out with. I always ask for directions because I usually get lost...but half the fun is the journey so I don't mind. I prefer someone else to cook for me...it's not that I can't cook...it's just better when someone else does it for me! Coffee is indespensable to my happiness.

I am looking for someone who can laugh at themselves, takes life somewhat seriously when appropriate and who would eventually like to have a relationship...if the chemistry is right.

Additional later thoughts...I have been told that it's difficult to know who I am from the short profile I have written. I have done that on purpose...the core of me is there. I could write paragraphs of stuff, but why...you need to meet me and find out for yourself. Also, aren't men mostly visually driven anyway...

A first date should be something that makes us both feel comfortable...I think a beverage of some sort is a great place to start. I like to keep it casual where conversation is possible. It's important to determine if you can keep up a conversation, if your personality translates live and whether or not you wrote your profile or had your friend come up with all the wit for you!

Male
Age between 36 and 53
Live in Canada
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke