My daughter thinks im nuts resorting to this and yep, im officially declaring myself nuts. Decided that if i cant join em, beat em.
I would like to find her. I know, thats what some of the serious people here say.. Difference is, well,if by some chance it happens, itll be the last time i log onto these things.Cant abide liars cheaters and people who are full of it.Can be shy until i warm up a bit. Loyal as a dog if felt that its appreciated. Missing the simple things now, The cuddles, hand holding, walks along a deserted beach, sigh. What am i not looking for?, one nighters, women with serious emotional hangups, casual meetups, though friends are good,and others looking for less describable things that cant mention here,please dont bother me.If youre dragging your ex along with you,or looking for a means to bolt,( been victim to that one)please dont waste our time.Seen a few instances of that here and trust me, it dosent work..
Im really looking out for the one girl that will make these sites redundant for me and the last time i have to write one of these.If youve got children,(be suprised if you didnt)consider it a positive.Down to earth and with a positive outlook, happy and content to take the discovery road again with no clouds in the rear view mirror. ive been brave enough to put up a pic and would expect the same. im really not shallow but there has to be a measure of physical attraction,so a pic would be nice to see, other wise everyones inbox would be crammed and we would be spending rest of our lives answering emails.please feel free to drop a line if youd like to know bit more, i wont bite and you wont find any nasty suprises either.

Ah.. seems the favouties added indicator has been dispensed with. now its harder to see who the ego builders, site addicts and attention seekers are..grr

After a little while around here ive had another revelation,, silly me. A few of you ladies have complained about being back here on the site for another attempt, again, because you were taken in by some of the fancy wrappings and the wow factor that apparently litters the site.. Ive been there too so i cant judge. Guess its the nature of the beast here but i would hope that most of us here are serious about what and why we here. The inside person is just as, if not more so, important as the outside wrapper. I think if a lot of us remembered that point it would all be so much easier. And to those that have woefull tales since being on these things theres one thing to bear in mind.. Women cannot complain about men anymore until they start getting better taste in them.

Things i wouldnt do;
1. a 180 degree turn around and runlike heck
2. Give a false phone number at the end of the date.Come to think of it if you didnt ask for it i wouldnt offer it, it is the age of equality after all.There again if youve blown my doors off id give you my mobile anyway.
3. Make eyes at other women. If we serious enough to meet then wouldnt notice anyone else. Leave that to the players and muppetts that are on here.
4. Ask for a second date.If weve clicked, well know the answer to that one anyway.
5.Wont keep dissapearing to the loo with the mobile. Lost too many down the pan.
Hopefully theres a picture emerging here.
Just A quiet drink, getting to know each other and see where it goes.Preferably away from this damn computer.

***********/\**********put this on your
**********/ . \***********profile if you
*********/ . . . \**********feel you have
********/. . . . . \*********totally lost the
*******/ . . . . . . \*********plot, you are
******/ . . . . . . . . \********surrounded
*****/ . . . . . . . . . . \*******by a bunch of
***** . . . . . . . . . . . *******nutters and a
**** . . . ¬ . . . . ¬ . . .******full psychological
***( . . . @ . . . . @ . . )*****evaluation is the
*****. . . . . . . . . . . .*******most effective
***** . . . . . ? . . . . ****solution to the reason
****** . ._____ . . ******you keep returning
****** . . ^^^^ . ****in the vain hope of finding
******* . . . . . . . ****someone to connect with...

light heartedly:
Women get the last word in every argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is a man who hopes they are.

When a man talks dirty to a woman, it's sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 a minute.

Be to her virtues very kind,
Be to her faults a little blind.

There are women who do not like to cause suffering to many men at a time, and who prefer to concentrate on one man: These are the faithful women.

No matter how good she looks, some other guy is sick and tired of putting up with her crap.

The girls that are always easy on the eyes are never easy on the heart.

Women who feel naked without their lipstick are well over thirty.

Variability is one of the virtues of a woman. It avoids the crude requirement of polygamy. So long as you have one good wife you are sure to have a spiritual harem.

Beauty is the first present Nature gives to women, and the first it takes away.

Anybody who believes that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach flunked geography.