Life sometime throws us a curve ball when we least expect it. I have been a devoted loving wife for 27 years and for the past 12 years a caregiver to my wonderful husband who has advanced Alzheimer's. He no longer knows who I am but I still go to visit him at the nursing home and see to his needs. It has been very hard on me doing things alone these past 3 years. This chapter in my life is over and I have closed the book. I believe God meant for us to have companionship in our lives. I am an eternal optimist and believe everyday is a gift that should be lived to the fullest and enjoyed. I am ready now to write a new chapter in my life.

I am on a quest to find my last life partner, friend, companion and lover. I believe that a good relationship begins with true friendship; from that each partner should gives to one another five important values that help quantifies a good relationship; Trust, Faith, Family Values, Honesty, Respect...

TRUST: Is my first gift I give to my partner in a relationship. How this gift is used, will determine the strength by which the relationship will grow beyond a friendship.

FAMILY VALUES: I do not like to argue or fight. Open communication is much easier to resolve any disagreement and move forward by putting arguments behind you. Never go to bed mad. I am committed to a monogamous relationship.

FAITH: my new partner must be a man of “Faith”, but not religion. I am neither a “Bible Thumper” nor do I quote scripture.

HONESTY; I look to a partner to be honest and able to communicate openly, as I will. "Self-awareness and comfort with oneself is the foundation on which all other types of intimacy are built. A person who practices self-honesty and self-acceptance is best able to be honest with, accepting of and loving toward another person in a relationship".

RESPECT: There is nothing to fear in a relationship that one needs to lie. Lying is a weakness and shows no respect to anyone. I respect the need to have one’s space and, time to one's self. I am a good listener and patient, I look for this in a partner too. Albert Einstein once said: "Women marry men hoping they will change and men marry women hoping they will not; so each is inevitably disappointed." I am not looking to change but, to grow. God has helped me to value others and to accept them as they are.

Now that I have shared some of my values, here are a few personal things about me:

I do not live in the fast lane; I am a country girl by heart but sophisticated too. I was raised the old traditional ways with family values and principles. I like to be spontaneous, very affectionate and a serious romantic. I like to cuddle, kiss and walk arm in arm or hand and hand. I have a sense of humor and can laugh at my "MAD COW" moments.

My home state is New Jersey but, later I moved to Harrisburg PA and lived there for 30 years. Move to Florida 6 years ago due to my husband's health. I truely love it here.

I come from a large family and they live all over the USA. My family plays a big part in my life. I think it is important to make time to visit family from time to time. I have a beautiful daughter and 3 lovely grandchildren which are growing up very fast.

I work at keeping my body and mind in good shape by going to the gym 3 days a week and try to eat healthy. If you are looking for someone to sit around, I am not her. Life is to interesting to sit around and watch it happen. I am very active. I like riding my bike, working out, dancing, playing golf, boating,fishing, traveling and exploring new horizons.

I enjoy listening and dancing to all kinds of music, jazz, blues, big bands, 40's, 50s, 60s, CW and yes good old opera, classical and bagpipe music too (see the dancing queen) .

I love animals, nature, the arts, theater and concerts, reading, playing chess,love photography and playing golf. But the one thing I love the most is being out on the water on my houseboat, fishing and star gazing. I like most sports; go Dallas Cowboys, yes that's my team win or lose. I love to cook, I miss sharing that with my partner working side by side preparing a meal together or working out in the yard or just taking a night stroll hand in hand.

I am not looking for a one night stand or an intimate encounter. I am looking for a true friend, companion and someday a lover. Searching and building a caring relationships can seem such a daunting challenge, but it’s the first steps that are so hard. I believe the journey that follows can be one of life’s most rewarding and exciting adventures. As with all things beautiful, a rich relationship requires daily nurturing. Success is possible when both individuals cherish the other’s happiness and well-being and when both are committed to persisting through the toughest times. Who knows what the future holds, good things come to those who wait; you might find your best friend at your side that will make you laugh, live and love like you never did before.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Please note: I believe one should complete their profile information and attach a current clear photo, if you wish to improve your opportunity for an open line of communication with me. After all, physical appearance is an essential element in the “chemistry" we all seek. Mental chemistry creates interest, Emotional chemistry generates desire. Spiritual chemistry creates love.........

I am spontaneous, so I don't mine traveling to meet for lunch to get aquainted, or maybe play a game of golf or go to the driving range, I am open to suggestions.