I'm a very independent woman. I have an 18yr old son. I like to go out to the movies, out to a good resteraunt maybe even a little dancing. A sense of humor is very important to me, life is to short to be unhappy and I love to laugh. I've been single for some time so I kind of got set in my ways and I'm willing to change. I will be honest and say I have a huge wall. I would like someone that is secure with himself, no jealousy. I'm very honest and my friends tell me that I'm to honest but I don't play games. I'm from NY and I'm really starting to think that it scares people because I'm loud. For 18yrs it's been about everybody else and now it's my turn to have some fun. I work and have worked with alot of men so thats kind of made me a little rough around the edges but I am a lady. I have no drama in my life therefore I don't want any. When I'm with someone I want to be myself.

On the first date I would probably go out to eat and then maybe a movie.