UPDATE

I AM BECOMING INCREASINGLY DISILLUSIONED WITH THE WOMEN ON HERE WHO IT SEEMS CAN ONLY AMASS LESS THAN A FEW WORDS IN THEIR REPLIES, IT REALLY ENCOURAGES A GUY TO WANT TO CHAT MORE KNOWING THEIR CAPACITY TO WANT TO INTERACT IS ZERO!, AND WHEN YOU READ THEIR PROFILES THEY ALL SAY THEY WANT TO MEET SOMEONE & CHAT HOWEVER WHEN YOU DO MAKE CONTACT WITH A WORTHY 1ST MESSAGE FULL OF CONTENT,THE LAUGHABLE REPLY IS ONE SYLLABLE "THANX"!!! HAHAHAHAHA
I APPRECIATE YOU CANT GET ON WITH EVERYONE & SOME GUYZ MESSAGE CONTENTS LEAVES A LITTLE TO BE DESIRED SO UNDERSTAND A WOMENS RETICENCE IN WANTING TO ENGAGE TO THOSE, HOWEVER YOU WOMEN COMPLAIN YOU CANT MEET ANYONE YET WHEN A OPPORTUNITY ARISES IT IS MISSED, MAYBE YOU JUST DONT WANT TO MEET SOMEONE AS MUCH AS YOU SAY.....MAYBE YOU CAN PROVE ME WRONG IN THIS.....(RICHIE HOLDS HIS BREATH!!!!)

I find myself here looking for a lady to share that special connection with,& some quality time together having fun and enjoying each others company, As my journey has taken me to different places and faces I have kissed a few female frogs along the way! they've not turned into that princess i was hoping for!But i realised i am not after a princess but a women who can compliment my lifes journey further...

Its been said I have an ability to make people laugh, so go ahead take a peek at my pictures then try not to!!!! I am truly blessed to have my 12yr old daughter in my life who means the world to me,the smile on her face always fills me with so much love for her, but that doesnt mean that there isnt space for someone else in it to enrich it further.

I love music,70's & 80's, mainly Old Skool RnB, but have so many other tastes i like also! I love mooching in all the little shops which Brighton has in abundance.The seafront is always busy what ever the time of year as theres always stuff going on,When the sun comes out theres not really a better place to live & going for a walk along the prom with that special person is a lovely experience not to be missed.

Live life passionately, love unconditionally.....my motto for living my life. Whats yours? I am a professional, confident guy with many interests looking to share good conversation, dreams and aspirations with a like minded woman. I am involved within alternative interests of the spiritual side of life so hopefully you will have an open mind to this...!!?

There are 4 kinds of chemistry between a man and a woman: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Physical chemistry generates desire, emotional chemistry generates affection, mental chemistry creates interest and spiritual chemistry creates love. A soul-mate has all 4.

Some women say, that i am NOT the typical guy you get on here?....You know ladies the typical ones that want your bra & knicker size,before they have even said hello to you!!! Maybe you like that in a guy, the danger element, but eventually all it leads too is heartache!!........or does it ?( answers on a postcard please?)

"I'm just trying to build a life for myself & if i meet lots of interesting wild, funny or just plain nice people along the way I'll consider myself incredibly lucky"

Here are just a few thoughts I like to keep in mind :-

Seek first to understand before you seek to be understood.
Never make someone your priority when to them you are only an option.
Don't settle for the one you can live with, wait for the one you can't live without.
Never blame a new love for things an old one did.
Start as you mean to go on!
Actions speak louder than words.

Rite.....1st date lets meet for a drink or coffee, somewhere we can at least hear ourselves speak!! then see what happens,dont not want it to be like making a trip to the dentist!!hehehe
Its always tough on the 1st date, as we are all nervous of meeting up!!All i would say is"Just be yourself",& that person your meeting could be the person who could become a friend for life, if not, you would of at least made a lasting impression . That person may be a stepping stone toward meeting someone else, who may of not yet come in to your life, so enjoy each person you meet & remember that each one of us is looking for that special connection too.

Good Luck in your search x

PS: If you stop & take a peek it would be great if you said Hi? :O)