I followed my technical diving instructor to Mexico for cave diving and to see those parrotfish. I personally took the photo of the ’55 Chevy grille that’s on the menu bar of my business website. And I have no qualms about asking for Arrogant **stard Ale at the wine emporium. You could say that I’m audacious, but there’s more to me than just parlaying my love of music into a web business. More than being an Amazon.com enthusiast who pre-orders “Harry Potter” and science fiction books (I was hooked by “Dune” at twelve). More than the lady who lusts for the sexy American ball and claw in the slick Sotheby’s catalog. I’m also the one who little old ladies look to for advice on their hair color in the drugstore. The one who relishes being a volunteer for the handicapped. The one who’s never rude to a stranger. I also know when to give advice and when to give a back rub. If you’re the one who enjoys looking for the perfect margarita in San Miguel while laughing at the tourists in sombreros, you might be for me. As long as you enjoy always having your feelings considered, a great listener in your life, and the partner who’s just as supportive as you are.


ABOUT THE ONE I’M LOOKING FOR:

You think that reading Sartre is a great cure for insomnia but you have your own slant on life. You’re a romantic who’ll stop the car and climb a tree to pick a magnolia for me. You know how I find any flower given for no reason romantic. You love how I’ll surprise you with a trip for fun and sun. You get a kick out of my appreciation for a chef who’ll come out and explain to us why his beurre blanc had just the slightest hint of lemon. You love how I’m happy in my own skin while still having a predilection for self-help books. You think it’s cute that, on occasion, I lose my car at the mall. You just take me in your arms and tell me that you love me just the way I am. Remembering that I like strong coffee with Splenda comes naturally because of how you feel about me. Playing with my hair comes naturally too. You think it’s sexy that I top six feet in my Jimmy Choo’s. You enjoy how we whisper to each other our deepest ambitions after making love. You’re looking for a lasting connection full of fun, trust, and bond that gets stronger everyday.

In a nutshell, I am seeking:

Having Fun Together
Mutual Support
Humor
Intimacy
Accepting each other's differences
Intellectual Stimulation
Companionship

Since I've been contacted by so many who live outside of Memphis, I must add that I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone in the surrounding areas. I enjoy the culture, art and music of the city and would never consider relocating to Mississippi or Arkansas for a long term relationship.

If that sounds like something you're looking for, please send me an email.

Somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other, preferably in East Memphis or Midtown.