Updated update: I'm a very positive upbeat person who is usually smiling and laughing so I hate to start off with negatives but I feel a need to get out some specifics. First, please be sincere with your heart. I want someone who truly wants a relationship or dating. I am not here for just sex. Second, please do not email your phone number or ask me out in your very first email. I won't call you or write you no matter how cute you are. I want someone who wants to actually get to know me as a person first. Third, please realize I can handle it if you talk to me with more than one word caveman language. I lose interest quickly with guys who write me one word responses (yes, good, kewl, etc). Lastly, please try to challenge me..interest me...go after me a bit. I'm not one to string ya along. I do meet for dates. Since I'm a real person, my heart is real and it does get hurt. So there...that's some of what is on my mind. I am a nice person and unfortunately, I seem to attract people who try to take advantage of that. BTW, I do have good friends on here and I don't mind making new friends. I trust you will be real and I trust your intentions are too. I am not perfect. I can accept your flaws too...just be real with me. Thanks :)

Update: I wrote in my profile, we make time for what's important, and being a single mom, my kid's activities, like football, lacrosse, track, wrestling, etc are the next big priority. So getting to practices/games/workouts/meets, etc takes up some of my free time. Sports really are helping them turn into really great guys. I'm proud of their accomplishments and how they are balancing it all and in the midst of our crazy schedule, they're turning out great! So, I'm sorry that I don't have more time to write. :( I am working on this though. :)

Ok..so, let's see...I'm half Polish and half PuertoRican...I know, I know, what a combination...lol...hhmmm..guess that fits me though...I'm kinda unusual. :) In addition, you'll find I'm sweet, fun, smart, honest, faithful, hysterically funny, single mom of 2 boys that love football. I hafta admit I love football too and you'll find us playing football in our spare time. I usually get to be the quarterback (I've got a pretty darn good spiral)! My friends and family are important to me and I will do anything within my abilities to help another person (whether I know them or not). I defintely think we are here to make the world a better place...and the most important thing to me is that my boys are not only good to each other, but others as well. I think maybe cuz I have young kids still, I tend to be young hearted and thanks to Mom, young looking (people never guess my age). I want someone honest, smart, faithful, passionate, fun...and please be able to challenge me! I tend towards younger guys. I don't care where on God's Earth you live....I think we make time and effort for what's important to us and that can mean you living 5 miles away or 5000. I have a lot of ties to the East Coast (family and friends). I tend to be a positive person so would like the same. I love to dance and if you can't, that's fine...I'd be happy to teach ya if you let me! This doesn't mean I'm a barhopper or clubber all the time, I just like to get out once in awhile..and of course, this Latina still can move! ;) And I know this might be hard to believe, but I really don't care how much money you make. I'm not a high maintenance kinda chick. I don't mind stuff like fishing (I taught my boys), but I'm the type that does it with corn, hot dogs or the fake lures, so if you want real, you're gonna hafta do the little wormy thing...k? :D Also, I'm finding out it's kinda hard to IM on here...so, at least for now, I gave up on the IMing. Sorry...

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---///----\\\----I'm gonna up the ante on this and
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-///--------\\\---Give a buck or buy a Breast Cancer Awareness
///----------\\\----or Livestrong bracelet-We CAN make a difference! :)

I am very easygoing and have fun doing anything. Dating is not about the place, but who you are with :)