Life: I work a lot because there is no alternative at this time. Never been into the bar scene... partied (reasonably) when I was in my 20's...Had many outdoor hobbies now it is the computer and readings, but want desperately to go out and play outside.

Personality: I am easy going 'live and let live' kind of attitude. Generous and frugal at the same time. I presume everybody is decent until proven otherwise, SO BE NICE and I am yours for ever. I do not like pretentious people who live above their means.

Match: Looking for someone who would want to be with me...or else don't bother. I would expect loyalty as I am VERY loyal. Turn-offs: doing anything out of malice, pettiness, or spite, however minimal. Turn-ons: honesty, kindness, confidence.

So, looking for a long-term relationship...importance out of ten...looks(6)...education(5)...religion(1)...kindness(9)...loyalty(9)...smarts(9)...respect(9)...wit(9)...something good about you(10)...some other thing not so great(1).

What ever the lady prefers. As for me casual no pressure...just relaxed what ever fancies us at that time. NO pretending, same comfort level as you would feel with a valued friend.