Someone once asked me what am I looking for in a mate. Well let me see. It has been a long road getting to where I know what I want. I want someone who also knows what they want. If they are looking for just sex, then say it, don't assume I know that is how you feel. I want someone who can take care of themselves, but they are looking for that person to share life with. Someone who is confident about themselves, doesn't use crutches and/ or excuses to get through life. Someone who understands the need for honest communication in a relationship. I really am not a scorned woman, I am very down to earth and know how to have a good time. My favorite outfit is jeans and a hoodie,but I also dress up when I need to. So if you are tired of playing games, because honestly, i know how the game is played, I just dont play games, and you can handle a big beautiful woman with a big heart, hit me up and lets chat.

A perfect first date for me would be somewhere comfortable where you can sit and chat and get to know each other. I think its very important to be able to communicate.