Looking for Mr Right if he happens to come along, but also just as happy to make some great freindships on here as i am in no rush to be in a heavy relationship after a 20 yr marriage. I dont like giving reams of what i want in a person as i believe you just click with a person and sometimes its not who you would expect it to be. The most attractive thing for me in a man is his smile and sence of humour. I like a man who can hold a conversation as I can sometimes be a little shy at first until i feel i know a person well, then I tend to be a very outgoing person once i know you, so if you're prepared to give me that time, Im sure you will get to see the fun loving, spontanious side to me. I like men who are confident in themselves and in life in general, but never a man who is bolshy and brash. I am extremely faithful to the man in my life and will expect the same in return so no players please. I am hoping to make some great friends, and then maybe from one of those friendships i might even eventually find my soul mate in life. How about finding out if you might be him? (I dont tend to message men first much at all, so be brave and tell me if you're interested)

Just a coffee or quiet drink in a little pub would be nice on the first date.