i a divorced, professional, independent woman who moved to nc from richmond, va. i have 2 kids.. both have begun their own journeys in life. my last long term relationship ended when i left va. so.. my proverbial 'house' is straight and clean.. and otherwise fully decorated. i (like to think i) am open and communicative.. interested and curious.. self-aware.. and someone who sees life as some amazing learning-adventure-field-trip for the soul... even if i sometimes find myself stumbling through it ; )

i've dated some since i got here.. but to be honest, i am having a hard time finding the right guy for me. i am looking for a genuine fun and funny adventurous smart kind yummyinbed guy to do things with in our mutual spare time... and just see where it goes. i love to laugh and see the humor in just about everything. please be kind, compassionate, love life.. be present.. and be open to the possibility of a relationship.... assuming it's a good fit ; )

for a little more insight, if you are a myers-briggs enthusiast, i am an INTJ.
i also keep a blog...: www.geekychic.com (chic as in stylish..)

fantastically amazingly engaging and spontaneous conversations about life, experiences, successes, failures, dreams, struggles and challenges... just to get a sense of each other... the actual setting is irrelevant!