Hey, I hope to think I am that "A Good and Decent Guy" that so many ladies seem to be looking for. So ladies, look no further...Since I've recently become single again, I've looked most for companionship and maybe that someone special....I'm not a big "Bar" guy, but I love a nice dinner out, and a trip to the movies..If there is a good Show, or concert in town I'd say "Lets Go!"... But like most of us, we have children to work around..so don't be surprised if the "night out" is just a quiet one at home w/ a DVD and a bag of popcorn.
Like a few of us I am coming out of a long term relationship. But from my brief introduction back into the world of the living, I have found I am really enjoying the adventure of just meeting a new lady and spending a few hours w/ her away from the hustle and haggles of everyday life. But after 14 months of "dating' I think I can honestly say I know what I'm looking for in a partner. I'm not looking for someone who is into "sport dating" or "Serial-dating" as some may call it. I admit I am looking for something more substantial and hope anyone who contacts me thinks the same way. I think my goal has always been to find that "right person"..not just another date for this friday nite.
Some could say I had "the perfect life" great job, great kids, longtime marriage...but things are not always what they appear on the surface, so in the end, one of those things had to change...and my job and kids are still great.
Physically I use the old adage "Low Miles, 1 Owner" I'm in good shape, (Have Drs note to prove it) But I always have trouble w/ the Attractive/Average Question...I think some women call me "cute" which is a odd thing to be called at my age..but I like it better than ...Average.(Edit...I have now been officially called "Handsome..and a Cutie" by recent accounts..so..that's all the self promotion I'm a allowed.
Oh yes..and I do know my way around a kitchen.
mrcareful2007, or fof0719 via yahoo is how to find me and when you do.., or AOL ladies can find me as BZDad08.
In "real life" I work in administrative law and have a "paying hobby" I work a couple nights a week. So I think I fit the qualifications for "Must Be Gainfully Employed" and ....The Lady I seek should be self confident, and happy w/ herself physically and in her life...Physically, I just hope you look nice in either a pair of jeans, or in "that little black dress". Her occupation isn't critical, but I do admit a professional (similar to myself) is a big thumbs up. So, for those of you are nice enough to stop by, thanks... If you are looking for that "good guy"..you may have found him.
I'd just like to be perfectly clear..I am listed here as "Divorced" because I did not see a "Seriously and totally separated" option...My divorce paperwork has been filed by both parties. It is now "just a matter of time".
Last..I am very flattered by any lady who wishes to contact me..but lets all be honest..even love has it's limits..so please..if you like to contact me..please live in the 315 area code.
First Date
This is always determined by mutual interest..1st MEETINGS range from coffee, to drinks to candle lite dinner and anything in between.
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i just need to know Accept her "no thank-you"maturely and move on. But also please take these well meant words...
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