i am a strong and intelligent male. i enjoy challenging converstaions. i love cooking. when you make the meal exactly as intended and the only sounds you hear are compliments, silence is beutiful. i am more comfortable in the night, the moon mesmerizes me. i stand up for myself and others. my empathy controls my conscience. i am compelled to help someone in need because i feel thier pain. my demeanor is typically stoic, which is often misinterpreted as unemotional. i have never been a male to chase women. i rely on them to approach me, which has worked fine. this internet format forces my hand into new directions. i privatley write poetry which i guard with my soul. only very special people will ever get a glimpse into that side of me, only a few ever have. i try my best to live my life by moral rules that i have established. always tell the truth even if it hurts you. never ignore someone in pain. try to help a stranger whenever you can, and never use capital letters or paragraphs. if my grammar, spelling, punctuation or sentence structure bothers you then please dont contact me. we are incompatible. i am a noncomformist looking for a women outside of the mold. one who can challenge me spiritually, physically and emotionally. a women who knows who she is and what she wants. my picture is intentionally vaugue and i will provide you with better ones if i am comfortable with you.

DO NOT ADD ME AS A FAVORITE, dont feel sorry, dont feel sorry for me. i dont need your sympathy or empathy. dont need your sympathy inside of me.

the first meeting with someone new should be laid back i believe. go have a drink or a bite to eat and get to know each other. somewhere that is condusive for conversation. see if there is a compatibility or attraction and go from there. go for a walk or go to a museum. someplace peaceful