Smart, charming, sensitive, caring, witty woman in search of that one man with similar characteristics and values who will sweep me off of my feet with charm and personality, a great sense of humor, a fabulous smile, and the ability to give me that butterfly feeling every time we are together. Someone who knows to treat others with respect, someone who values friendships and family, someone who's not afraid to show emotion or public displays of affection. I'm employed full time and working on my Bachelor's degree in Criminal Justice, so I don't have a ton of free time, but I can certainly make time for the right person. Hoping to find that one special person who I can't wait to talk to or hold in my arms...kiss. I'm not looking for a passing flame...I want the whole fireplace - warm, toasty, and always burning bright.

I am not looking for one-time flings or serial dating. I realize that a long-term relationship has to start somewhere, but please do not waste my time if you're not serious about what you're truly looking for. If you're looking for a hook-up, move on to someone who is. I know what I want and the occasional "we'll get together if I have nothing better to do" is NOT it. What I'm looking for is that ONE man with whom I can let down my guard, laugh with, grow with, experience life with...all of those things that encompass a monogamous relationship.

For me, a first date happens after you've met for the first time in a casual setting - perhaps over a coffee - and you've realized that you actually want to see this person again. A first date should be in an environment that allows two people to talk openly and honestly...a "getting to know you better after the first meeting" so to speak. A loud bar or a movie theater doesn't give you that - good for second and third dates, maybe.