"I'll Stand by You!" A little music from Carrie Underwood! Look it up and you will find that this song is about helping others. Did you see the American Idol "gives back" program?
My name is Patty, from Florida, I am a 44yr old, female 5'7ft with a great outlook on life. I am a confident, articulate, educated, successful professional that is seeking the exceptional partner. Adventurous, and Romantic individual that enjoys: music, movies, laughter, dining out, clubbing (occasionally) and spontaneous travel. Or, join me in the kitchen and have a glass of wine while I prepare dinner and we'll share deep stimulating conversation. Further exploring the mental chemistry between us. A relationship that ends up where it's supposed to is what I seek. If that's a serious relationship, good friends or great lovers, I am prepared for the next encounter life has to offer me. A friendship that is uninhibited and pure fun is what I'm about. Locations, settings and chemistry that will arouse all your senses and moments shared that cross your mind a week later while at the office. Putting a smile on your face while wondering when it's possible to feel like that again is the sensation I aim to leave you with. I want a man that I can trust without question and who can trust me the same. A man who loves me for my heart and soul. We would be like two vases of water poured into one larger more beautiful vase, in which we would be one. Holding each other, breathing each other, tasting each other as we watch the sun rise and set in each others arms. Laughing, crying, singing, praying, playing, working together to make life fun and safe for each other. I have not found that yet, but I am eternally hopeful. Maybe I am just a hopeless romantic woman but hope is what gets us out of bed each morning to face the day. Been there, seen it and know better.I have been through alot of hurts in my past and also have been taken advantage of, and just dont want that happening anymore, all I am looking for is a real true love from the right man because I am for real and don't play head games. I have no physical or mental baggage and strive everyday to be a better woman for myself. Karma, Kindness, Family, Loyalty and Honesty are important realities in my lifestyle. If we are meant to be, even geography couldn't keep us apart.I want you to know that i will definately do everything just to be in love again...REMEMBER ALL I NEED IS THE REAL TRUE LOVE!!!
I want to thank you for stopping by my POF page. Here's my question: Ever see a guy open a car door for a lady lately? I have and I think it's amazing. Be the guy that acts on tradional values. That's the guy I want more than I can even dream of. He's the man I could love like he's the last man on earth.
I need a strong man that will treat me with respect and make the effort in a relationship. Someone who will appreciate the love of a good woman who has a decent and respectful job! Don't want a man who is going through a mid-life crisis, please...Been there and done that. If you are not a confident and strong, yet secure, man do not read my profile further. I need strength from any man in my life. Not someone that's weak, unsure or unclear of why he is on this website searching for a date. My partner would have to be a person that truly believes in mutual RESPECT for each other. I believe that if you are in a relationship, you should stay focused on that relationship to help it grow to heights beyond belief. You can do this if both people continue to focus on each other and never get to a point where you think you can do better or that the grass is greener. You should remember that people do change, but that doesn't mean you can't change and grow together. Life is a journey that should be traveled together with a partner you enjoy being around. Someone who you can't wait to get home to in the evening. You know that heart flutter you feel when he calls or touches you as he briskly walks past you. The chills and goose bumps that you get from just thinking about him. That's what I'm talking about.
You should really appreciate what you have because you can lose things in a moment by death or divorce or other reasons. Cherrish your life, friends and family. Seriously, tell others that you care or one day you may not be able to. My partner needs to stand up for our Flag and be a true American. He must believe in GOD, but he does not have to be a regular church attendee, but the belief is necessary..My favorite song at church is Amazing Grace!
ABOUT MY PICS: The striped shirt pics in the hair dresser chair were taken 10/30/07, The regular head shots with the big smile were taken in Feb 07 (divorce day), the pics with my two Niece's were taken Christmas Day 2007, the pics with the black party dress were taken 12/09/07, the pic with the blue sweater in my room,i.e. the main photo was taken on New Years Eve 12/31/07, the black and white pics were taken in May 2007 on my first cruise. The Red Mustang Convertible pic was taken 04/08.
I have learned a lot about myself this year. I learned that without faith you cannot continue when the going gets tough. I have been told by many of my close friends that I'm the strongest woman they know and I think that just might be true after the year I've had. Divorce after 15 years and the death of my father, death of my grandmother, death of a co-worker, death of my best friend from breast cancer, death of my doggies and other events that I will share with you at a later date, were life changing events that I've grown so much from. I'm ready to begin my new life with that special person. I'm tired of waiting to meet someone in the line at the Super Market or Target so I'm trying the online way.
ABOUT MY WORK: I'm a Sales Manager in E-Education AND a Part time Nurse in patients homes, assisted living facilities or Nursing Homes. Working with the elderly is a very rewarding job. The elderly are where we will all be one day. My goal is to work with hospice. I'm a dedicated hard-working employee at my job. I have a strong drive for success. I can't just sit around. I need to get things done and grow from every adventure.
04/08 - Renewed my CNA, Certified Nursing Assistant Florida License and in 05/08 Achieved my professional Certification in Human Resources Management via Villanova University on-line. Passed with an A+ grade.
We should talk via email and IM and take it from there. You won't be dissappointed in me. Everything in this profile is recent and fresh and more importantly it's the truth. All I'm missing is YOU.
First Date
Would like to go for coffee or a drink or to dinner in a romantic restaurant and talk and truly hear what the person is saying. Prefer a quiet environment. It's important that you are friends with your date first as friends are the basis for any solid relationship. As far as what we do and where we would go on a first date; I am very flexible and would like flexibility in a partner as well. Spontaneous decisions are fun!
Let's have fun and be friends and enjoy the heck out of life. You only live once. LIVE WELL, LAUGH OFTEN, LOVE MUCH.
MUST NOT BE LOOKING FOR INTIMATE ENCOUNTER MUST NOT BE LOOKING TO HANG OUT MUST NOT LIVE WITH YOUR MOTHER (UNLESS SHE IS SICK) MUST NOT BE MARRIED MUST HAVE A CAR MUST HAVE A JOB MUST NOT DO DRUGS MUST NOT SMOKE MUST BE Emotionally SECURE MUST BE 5' 11" OR TALLER MUST BE AT LEAST 37 YEARS OLD MUST RESPECT WOMEN MUST NOT DATE WOMEN HALF YOUR AGE MUST BELIEVE IN GOD MUST BE PATRIOTIC
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Well I would have to say That Roxxy is my #1 Pic for hot girl in my video.Let's just say she has all the right curves in ALL the right places!!She is also sweet as cane sugar and one heck of a great person to hang with.If you are looking for a prize catch ,she is one-just not ready to be hooked just yet.Great looks,down to earth,and very classy.Need I say moe?
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