My life has come to a place of peace and optimism! It has been every bit worth the the learning curve of life to get here... I think I am ready to enter a serious relationship after almost 11 years of being happily divorced.

Funny the reaction you seem to have to the fullness of my profile... Just take it that I want you to be an excellent fully developed man. I am not expecting perfect--- I just want you to really really respect yourself and be smart, funny and open. You have to know that I do not expect you to be everything here... But be strong enough that all written here does not make you scared.

There are some specific men over the span of my life that each in part would form the man of my dreams…

1) He would have excellent spelling and grammar skills, be a master at math and would naturally be a record keeper in the files of his mind. Well that would be in a perfect world...

2) He would have a tenderness and keen ability to melt into intimacy with me in any setting, while at the same time have wit and a dry sort of absurd take on the goings on in the present that draws any listener into his perspective because your thinking comes from a place that is so clear a dissection of truth… matter of fact… like that… that what is said is listened to and followed because it is strikingly true and clear.

3) He would fiercely protect me and buffer the impact of the violent world as my covering.

4) He would have a phenomenal sense of style, preferring clothing that engages the touch with quality fabric and fine accessories that visually and tactilely excite. Choosing this type of look because he loves himself and positions his first impression full of the visual picture of who you are on the inside…

5) His love for me would show with his touch… He would have a sensitive awareness as I would for him when a deep muscle massage would heal a heavy day--- Also having a gentle loving nature that would naturally express through touch.

6) His connection and understanding of the Creator would be very personal rather than a religious one. It would be highly developed… still, operating in the flow of the Spirit outside of the sanctuary when a divine appointment appears. His first love would be Jesus/or the Creator if you are Jewish, and in joining properly with me the union would create dynamo to the maximum!

This message is meant for only one man… You know who you are and I wait until you find me…

My personal passion is my art work... I love to dance and see art anywhere, and exercise and go for long fast walks. Whatever makes me laugh too! My formal study has evolved around Fine Arts. I have attended 5 different college/universities in search of the answer to what makes a Master. The answer: Unity, Balance, Depth, Design, Repetition, Light, Space, Form, Color, and Movement. Much fun!
I am a Commercial Real Estate Buyers Broker locally/nationally, as well as a buyers representative selling luxury homes locally.

I'd like an optimistic funny man. Your sense of humor, if it is witty (not so much corny) will be a great plus. You would suit me well if you were an extraordinary guy who is full of character and vision... Your personal goals, spiritual connection and expectations beyond the average vision and you know that each is attainable. You watch your words because you know they have power. You are silly at appropriate times and intense when a job has to be done. You wouldn't prematurely talk to me about sex, because you know the genuine intimacy follows inspiration from the melting of minds and values... You are looking for that true connection, not a casual chemistry... You enjoy the melting together as friends that leads to the physical intimacy with no rush in mind. And you/I want to make sure you/I don't error again!

Would you wear those heavily starched white shirts when we go out because you know the way you dress for me will turn me on... Then when I wear your shirts later you will be turned on!!! Appreciate that I plan enough time to make my presentation pleasing for you... We both take this care, understanding that we are given only one first impression that often speaks louder than words. Okay... I don't expect we will dress up all of the time--- But I like it... So you use your judgement.

We both know there is no coincidence in our meeting, and we value and esteem each other, offering that soft resting spot of confidence in our quiet times, because we freely give so much in our day to day, that we refuel when we are together and we touch.

There are never harsh words or actions sent to each other, rather gentle when we break down our differences through our exchange of communications until we can hear the other's perspective and respect the other with tenderness. We deserve each other... And recognize we have been gifted... So we probably will have very few upsets!

I have had some incredible miracles in the last 24 years. I’m not a church person, I have a relationship. Some have misunderstood: I am a Christian and I believe all things in the bible... I am just not fond of religion for the most part. It would take nothing at all to get me to go to church--- I'm just not a fan of a lot of what I have heard of mans' interpretation of spiritual things. I do not have judgment over others and I’m absolutely not a clone. I have no problem going to bars and being around people who drink or smoke or are not perfect… I am happy and extremely content— I have learned self love but I'm not perfect. I don't smoke or drink... But I don't care if you do within reason.

I value myself to the extent that I will expect that you also value me. You will have my respect and be valued! I know that for many of you this on line dating has generated a serious candy store of casual encounters. I’m really happy to meet you, but I won’t kiss you on that first meeting even if I want to. We can hold hands and hug if it goes that way, but I don't want you to think I'm not interested in you because I don't kiss you at the end of the date. I am very sensual and I love the love making just like any full grown sexy woman. Still, it doesn’t mean anything without love mixed in the motion. And before I start kissing you I have to know that I like you! I’m looking for one specific genuine fully developed sophisticated man. A guy who loves and respects himself enough to love and respect me like he loves himself. We should be friends first.

This is so limiting to the volume of who I am and who you are... We have to start somewhere! I hope you find me... Thanks for reading this... All the best in your search if I'm not your girl!

Quiet conversation should be in the mix so we can learn about each other.... Then maybe some dancing! I like to ride bikes, walk, shopping in antique shops, art galleries are a favorite, I am totally into watching an excellent tennis match, and I really want to learn to play golf, love the phil, live theater! I would like to hear your ideas because I don't check out what's going on locally so much.. I'm not boring--- But my social life is kind of dull!

Male
Age between 40 and 62
Live in United States
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