~NOTE IF YOU ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH MY LOCATION~ I AM CLOSE TO ROCKFORD
UPDATE~ I KEEP GETTING GUYS THAT TELL ME HOW LONG MY PROFILE IS. YES, IT IS A LITTLE WORDY~ BUT IF YOU READ IT YOU CAN GET A GOOD IDEA OF WHO I REALLY AM. IF YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SOMEONE OF SUBSTANCE WITH OPINIONS,AND MORALS~ THEN YOUR RIGHT~ MY PROFILE IS NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.
~ ALSO, YES I AM 50 AND YES MY PICS ARE RECENT~ AND YES I KNOW I DONT LOOK 50~ I DONT ACT IT EITHER! I CAN KEEP UP WITH ANY 30 YEAR OLD IN EVERY WAY! LMAO
What am I looking for- I am looking for a man who wants more out of life than a 12 pack of beer and this weeks flavor of the week.A man who wants a woman in his LIFE, not just in his BED! Someone who can carry on a conversation and not always have to be right. Someone who likes to go to a movie or out for dinner and a drink- and maybe even a dance or two. Someone who wants to stay home and BBQ on the grill and sit in the yard and watch the sun go down. Someone who knows how to use the washer and dryer- and actually use's it. Someone to share all of life's ups and downs- success and failure. Yes, I want a lot out of this guy- but I have so much to offer in return. Me- well, I am anything but typical. I have been a single Mom for a lot of years, and my kids have and always will come first. But, they are almost grown and it's time for me to find someone else to spoil and make crazy. I am funny and easy going and a great cook- that's why I carry a few extra pounds that I am fighting very hard to loose. So, what do you think- want to come work up a sweat with me?? You know- working out, mowing the lawn or raking all the leaves in my yard Oh, and you must have a sense of humor- You have to make me laugh-
~ THEY SAY A PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS- I DON'T AGREE, IF ALL YOU LOOK AT IS THE PICTURE- YOU MISS EVERYTHING INSIDE.
~ RACE IS NOT IMPORTANT** PERSONALITY IS**
~ IF YOU HAVE READ THIS FAR, DOSEN'T IT PROVE THAT YOU ARE AT LEAST SLIGHTLY INTERESTED~ JUST FINISH READING MY PROFILE AND LEAVE ME A MESSAGE! I DON'T BITE, BUT I DO NIBBLE! LOL IF I HAVE CHECKED YOUR PROFILE FIRST AND DO NOT LEAVE A MESSAGE, ITS USUALLY BECAUSE I AM NOT SURE OF THE AGE FACTOR( I PREFER YOUNGER MEN, BUT IF YOU ARE OLDER DON'T GIVE UP THAT EASY) OR THE LOCATION (WILL YOU DRIVE TO SEE ME AS OFTEN AS I DRIVE TO SEE YOU)???
~ JUST FYI ~ IF YOU HAVE READ THIS FAR AND ARE INTERESTED, I AM SUPPOSED TO INFORM YOU THAT TOBYSGIRL IS NOT BECAUSE OF AN EX FLAME ~ ITS BECAUSE TOBY KEITH IS MY FAVORITE COUNTRY MUSIC SINGER. AND I USED TO GO BY WHISKIEGIRL (SONG BY TOBY KEITH) BUT EVERYONE THOUGHT I WAS A DRUNK~ LOL SO , NOW YOU KNOW!
~ OK, SO HERE IS ANOTHER FYI~ I SEEM TO BE ATTRACTING A LOT OF GUYS THAT JUST WANT TO DO ME ~ NOT DATE ME ~ AND ALTHO I AM FLATTERED, THAT IS NOT WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR. SO. IF SEX IS ALL YOU ARE AFTER, PLEASE KEEP LOOKING! BECAUSE IF YOU CONTACT ME YOU HAVE TO TALK TO ME~ I CANT READ YOUR MIND. AND WE WILL DATE BEFORE WE HAVE SEX~ WOW WHAT A CONCEPT! LMAO YEAH YEAH~ I KNOW I AM OLD FASHION I THINK YOU SHOULD KNOW MY NAME BEFORE WE SLEEP TOGETHER~ YOU SHOULD KNOW WHOS NAME TO SCREAM WHEN I MAKE YOU HAPPY~ LOL~ WICKED SMILE
~ THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT!! LISTEN CAREFULLY I DO NOT MESS AROUND WITH MARRIED MEN!! SO IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND JUST LOOKING FOR AN EASY MARK~ KEEP LOOKING!
~ I JUST FOUND THIS WONDERFUL QUOTE ON ANOTHER PROFILE~ "NEVER MAKE ANYONE A PRIORITY THAT MAKES YOU AN OPTION" THAT SAYS IT ALL~
~ANOTHER WONDERFUL TEXT MESSAGE I RECEIVED:AS WE GROW UP, WE LEARN THAT EVEN THE ONE PERSON THAT WASN'T SUPPOSED TO EVER LET YOU DOWN PROBABLY WILL. YOU WILL HAVE YOUR HEART BROKEN PROBABLY MORE THAN ONCE AND IT IS HARDER EVERY TIME. YOU'LL BREAK HEARTS TOO, SO REMEMBER HOW IT FELT WHEN YOURS WAS BROKEN. YOU'LL FIGHT WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND. YOU'LL BLAME A NEW LOVE FOR THINGS AN OLD FLAME DID. YOU'LL CRY BECAUSE TIME IS PASSING TOO FAST. AND EVENTUALLY YOU WILL LOSE SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE. ~ SO, TAKE TOO MANY PICTURES, LAUGH TOO MUCH, AND LOVE LIKE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN HURT. BECAUSE EVERY 60 SECONDS YOU SPEND UPSET IS A MINUTE YOU WILL NEVER GET BACK. ~DON'T BE AFRAID THAT YOUR LIFE WILL END, BE AFRAID THAT HAS NOT BEGUN~
~ I KNOW I DON'T HAVE THE PRETTIEST FACE FOR YOU TO LOOK AT, OR THE SKINNIEST WAIST FOR YOU TO HOLD~ BUT I PROMISE I DO HAVE THE BIGGEST HEART TO LOVE YOU WITH!
~ THE WORST THING ABOUT BEING LIED TO~ IS KNOWING YOU WERE NOT WORTH THE TRUTH!
~ SOMETIMES WHEN I SAY "I AM FINE"...I WANT YOU TO LOOK INTO MY EYES AND SAY "TELL THE TRUTH"
~ I AM NOT PERFECT: I WILL ANNOY YOU, TICK YOU OFF, SAY STUPID THINGS~ AND THEN WANT TO TAKE THEM BACK! BUT IF YOU PUT ALL OF THAT ASIDE, YOU WILL NEVER FIND A PERSON THAT CARES ABOUT YOU MORE THAN I DO.
~ AND JUST KNOW~ IF YOU THINK I AM EASY ON THE EYES, I THANK YOU! BUT I WILL NEVER BE JUST EASY!!~
~ I HAVE ALWAYS CONSIDERED MYSELF A "GLASS HALF FULL" KIND OF PERSON, BUT AFTER BEING BACK IN THE DATING GAME FOR THE LAST YEAR, I FIND MYSELF VERY SKEPTICAL. IS THERE REALLY SUCH A THING AS TRUE LOVE AFTER THE BLISSFUL AGE OF 16? I WOULD REALLY LOVE TO THINK SO. HOPELESS ROMANTIC? UNTIL I DIE!

I think a first date should be very simple- maybe meet for a pop , coffee, a drink, some place very public - yet quiet. So we can talk and I can tell if you are a fruitcake and you can tell if I am a fruitcake. Keep in mind that fruitcake is very colorful and a lot of people really like it. lol. Then we can decide on dinner or a drink and some slow dancing after that, or decide that there isn't enough to pursue anything further.And then maybe we can still be friends ~