I am a woman who know what I want and who I am. I dont play games and will not tolerate game playing of any kind from the person I am with. I love to laugh and enjoy life. I think that life is to short to spend it unhappy. Life will not always be perfect and fun and everything will not always go the way you want it to but you have to make the choice every day to by happy no matter what. I dont like being around people who are always negative becuase that is just depressing. There are things in thise life that you cannot control but for the most part your life is what you make of it.

I am looking for someone who knows what they want out of life and are not afraid to go out and get it. Yes, I do want a nice guy but not a push over. I need someone that can hold his own with me when we dissagree and doesnt just say or do what he thinks will make me happy becuase I wont do that either. With me, what you see is what you get. I am very honest and upfront so if you are oversensitive and get upset at any form or rejection then I ask why are you even on this site. The worst thing I find about some of the men on thise site is that if I dont reply and tell you why I am not intersted then you find it necessary to message me and tell me how mean I am. Well, I don't think it is mean. I get alot of messages and do not have the time to sit and reply to every guy I am not interested in. If you message me and I delete it and you continue to message me then I will just block you. The sad part is that I have had to do that way too many times on the site allready.

I am honestly unsure how much longer I am even going to remain active on this site. I can say I have found that most of the men on this particular online dating site are looking for a hook up or booty call. Even the ones that say they are not end up showing their true colors early on.

So, if you are not one of the many crazy guys on this site then feel free to message me and if the interest is mutual I will be more than glad to reply and chat and see what happens.

If its the first time I am meeting someone from here it is definitely going to start out with something simple like coffee and if there is a mutual interest then we can go from there