I'm not a biker and don't own one! When you look at me do you see a classical pianist? Computer programmer? Math geek? Chess master? Linguist who studies Latin? Grammarian? Philosopher? Mensan? Photographer? Bouncer? Someone who can see right through you but never mentions it because he knows about subtlty? Or do you see some burly biker guy who is as dumb as he looks? Who do you think I am and why am I here?

It Takes A Second To Say I Love You..But A Lifetime To Show It...You cannot find another me...

Life is about love, happiness and spending time with a person you feel good about. Making that other person happy and wanted is what I'm about.

I think I'm an honest man first and foremost. I'm not perfect and man enough to admit that. I have made mistakes I regret, but I learn from them and move on.

Why have I never been married and have no kids? (Good question). Never found the right woman I suppose, or should I say, she hasn't found me. I have no kids because I'm responsible, not lucky. I'm also independent and would prefer that in a woman. I like to go out drinking and making friends; I like to embarrass myself once in a while and sometimes the girl I'm with. All in fun, nothing personal. I never hurt anyone. Oh, and I'm from NYC so I curse a lot - think it's a law. Many times I'm a couch potato...or just like to relax by doing nothing...other times I'm in the action...fairly flexible.

Ok, now for the good stuff: I'm a computer tech and make decent money but not loaded - yet. What do I do for fun? (Another good question)! Well, in the real world on the weekends I play piano, take some really cool photos or write computer programs; and I've been playing poker long before it became trendy, (I know - oh boy)! (I write programs for fun mostly). But, when I'm with friends we go out camping, go out to dinner, a concert (rock, jazz, blues, etc. ) or a local bar or take a jaunt to pretty much anywhere at the drop of a hat. My friends would tell you I'm bright, responsible, loyal and honest, a great speller and grammarian, and a pretty good photographer. I like my coffee, scotch and cigars and various shiny things. I'm working on a novel but it probably won't be finished until I retire. (Little things like life and responsibilities get in the way - I squander all my money on bills - hehe). Also, I like some of the finer things in life despite my appearance. Yes, I go to the symphony once in a while - I may look out of place but I never care what people think of me. And if I see a piano at a bar or hotel, I'll just go for it and play for bit. (I like doing that). My sense of humor is sarcastic, wry, intelligent, downright wrong and some say even funny. I'm pretty happy with who I think I am. Just looking for someone to agree with me. I hope Texan women can appreciate that, although my luck has been lackluster. I am emotionally stable - would appreciate the same. I love going against the grain, meaning I am not at all politically correct, yet I have a conservative ilk, go figure. Now for the bad stuff: I smoke and enjoy it. I don't have the perfect body and I'm not a millionaire. Not really a snappy dresser or a slave to fashion, as it were, but I clean-up pretty well. I don't live in a TV perfect world. I live in Austin, I think. (Ever notice the best part of the story is in the parentheses)? Anyway, this is me. I'm an adult at work and that's it - kid the rest of the time. I'm a Mensa member if that means anything to anyone. Take it or leave it, this is me. Hope you'll take it, but I can't imagine why you would with all I've presented. Don't worry - li'l more easy going than you may think.