I love traveling and listening to music..love combining both and going to jazz festivals, etc!!....locally I enjoy old school r&b like...Mambos Combo at Bunkers...oh yeah:)..or some jazz at Dakotas or Rossi's downtown.

I like trying new things. Last year I tried surfing and fell in love with it. This year I want to go scuba diving in the ocean..I have my PADI..but have only gone freshwater diving:) My favorite trips are by an ocean.

At home, I enjoy watching movies and cooking. To do stuff locally my favorites are walks, restaurants, movies, bike riding for fun and for a workout, hearing bands and having people over.

As a little disclaimer...if you are the type just looking to go thru women on here...don't bother with me..I can get that anywhere and don't want it from you!:) I'm looking for a real man who's strong and confident..takes care of his business and has the kind of character that draws people to him...serious..but loves to kick it hard! ...and wants to find a cool person to hang out with..have lots of fun and treat with respect...is that you?

This summer I'm looking forward to getting better at tennis and golf...getting out on the lake for a lot of boating and hopefully getting on a sand volleyball league again.

Also on the introductory info question of "do you want kids" my answer is not really on the choices ..the answer is ..no I don't want anymore kids of my own, but yes I would be open and actually prefer to date someone with kids:) My kids are the best part of me and my love and joy!!!

I love to do lots of different things...email your ideas:)...except... I'm about coffee shop'd out tho....:P