Hi. After 4 years I am finally divorced! I am loyal to my friends. I am extremely liberal politically although I don't get to keep up too much. That doesn't mean I won't date a Republican. I love lively discussions and may even let you win a few! lol. My 4 kids keep me pretty busy. Although they recently went to live with their father I try to stay as involved as possible in their activities. I love nature, just about anything with fur, and a good laugh. I like being around friends but also enjoy my alone time. If you are only interested in sex, or your life is in chaos, please don't write. I am looking for someone who is fun, loyal, and stable. I want a man who can express his thoughts and his emotions. Who is comfortable saying "I love you", or "I'm really hurt or scared." I am looking to date and hopefully find someone to build a relationship with. I am well educated, honest, caring, and fun to be with. My friends think I am funny and vivacious. I love to cook for people and entertain. I try to look my best whether running around in jeans or dressing up to go out. I'd like you to do the same. Sweats have their place but they should not be the staple of your wardrobe. I love the islands or just about any beach. I am not much of a snow bunny. I also really enjoy comedy clubs. I like going to museums and art galleries, the theater, concerts, restaurants, flea markets, yard sales. I am always open to try new things and meet new people. I would love to learn to play golf so if you play and have the patience to teach a beginner that's a big plus.

My biggest turn ons are intelligence and a good sense of humor. I love a sarcastic wit. Not that I mind good looking! I believe chemistry is important but part of that comes from an emotional connection. I love to cuddle, hold hands and kiss. I think watching a man with his young child is really sexy. Watching that love and tenderness and patience tells a lot about what he is capable of in a relationship. I like a man who can spend hours talking about politics, philosophy, the nature of man and of love. I want someone who can show me how much he loves me with just a look or a touch of his hand. someone who can not only share those special times but can make the mundane daily tasks we have seem special.
If one of your exes took out a PFA against you, move on. I like calm peaceful relationships not emotional rollercoasters.
My biggest requirement is honesty. I can handle any kind of relationship as long as it is honest. I do not want or offer a commitment until we both feel that there is some real potential for us. I am not religious but have high moral standards and expect that from you too. Personal integrity is important. This prohibits lying, cheating, and using people. It may seem like I have a lot of requirements but I don't ask anything of you that I don't ask of myself and offer in return. If you capture my heart you will feel loved and special and I should too. So, If I haven't completely scared you off then drop me a line. I am very down to Earth and not as intimidating as I may sound. People usually say I am very open and comfortable to be with. So let's see where this leads.

A nice quiet dinner where we can talk and get to know each other better. Or maybe bowling and then a cappuccino somewhere we can sit and talk for a while. I believe a first date should be public. It can be a quick first meet for ice cream or something small, or a nice dinner and a movie or concert. I also like to go to art galleries and the little shops in Bethlehem or New Hope. If we seem to get along then maybe a day in the city together.