Love consists in looking together in the same direction.

- Antoine de Saint-Exupery



I'M LOOKING FOR SOMEONE NEAR SAN DIEGO.
I am looking for a healthy, in-shape guy with a strong libido who knows a woman wants to be respected but not controlled. Treat me like a lady in public and be that bad boy in the bedroom.
Make me feel special. Be romantic. Get inside my head and make me want you often.
I like to dance, hike, take walks, laugh and smile, make love with the man I feel safe with and protected by and respected; I enjoy theatre, movies. and travel, architecture. I belong to the museum of Art and the zoo.
I love my profession, my house is recently paid off and my son has made it thru 4 years of chemo. Things are looking up!
I eat pretty clean; lots more fruits and vegetables than meats.
I was a cheerleader, so I 'get' sports, but don't really want to be a 'widow'. I'd rather be out doing things, tho I don't think I need to be joined at the hip with a partner.
What I’m doing with my life
Always learning, always focusing on being happy, looking to accomplish goals I've set for myself.
I love to have parties and entertain (BBQ's, game nites...no wild drinking here)
What I’m doing with my life:
Always learning, always focusing on being happy, looking to accomplish goals I've set for myself and just exploring what life has to offer.
I am hopeful about love. Haven't dated in a few years because of my son, but looking forward to spending time with someone special.
I just booked a trip to Sydney for November. Maybe you could come with me??
I’m really good at:
People always say they love my house (comfortable;looks like an art gallery) They comment on my green thumb. My yard isn't that big, but I love where I live and I always plant a vegetable garden in the spring ( There's nothing like true love and home grown tomatoes :-)...)I have fruit trees and flowersalso, but no lawn.
I'm told I'm a good friend and listener and I have the 'thank you' notes to prove it! I'm a teacher by nature, so I like to mentor people in my field and sometimes do platform work. I'm a hairdresser, colorist, reconnective healer. I'm very tactile and enjoy giving facials and massages
I'm told I'm a good dancer, but really haven't ever taken lessons but would love to try Argentinian Tango with the right partner. Saw it danced in Buenos Aires (The birthplace), and I have been passionately enamored of it ever since.
The first things people usually notice about me:
My hair
My smile
My laugh


The last books I read were "The Brain In Love" and "Change Your Brain Change your Life" (Dr, Daniel Amen), various things on nutrition, the occasional murder mystery (vacation reading) and I'm reading in bits and pieces "The Multi-Orgasmic Couple".I am happy, and looking for a positive, curious, intelligent man who wants a passionate, connected relationship with his best friend.
I have traveled extensively ( I was a gypsy in a former life :-) )Love travel and all the new experiences and perspective it offers. I enjoy reading, but do more on vacation than otherwise.I'm self-employed. so I can get away for short trips regularly. I would be happy to linger in bed with you and the NY Times on a Sunday morning.
Please be healthy and know always learning is the key to keeping young.



A PERSONALITY TEST I TOOK RECENTLY BASED ON MEYERS-BRIGGS..

Your type is known as the teacher, or the educating mentor. You also belong to the larger group, called idealists. You tend to bring out the best in other people. You lead without seeming to do so. People are naturally drawn to you. You expect the very best from people which takes the form of enthusiastic encouragement which is so charming that people try their best not to disappoint you. You share your personality type with 3% of the population.
You need to feel a deep and meaningful connection to your romantic partners, and go to great lengths to understand and please your mate. Harmony is vitally important to you, and you often put others' needs before your own. You are very insightful about the underlying cause of conflicts, and an excellent communicator, so you have the tools to bring about a quick and peaceful resolution. You want to be appreciated for your thoughtfulness and compassion. You need your partner to make a real effort to get to know you. Above all, you need to be able to express your feelings and have them taken seriously.
Your group summary: idealists (NF)
Your type summary: ENFJ

San Diego is a wonderful place to be. There is always some street fair, exhibit, or shindig available, and plenty of great places to walk/hike. Let's just see what's cooking when the time comes.